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Mrs Mia Wallace 33 kids; Georgia 2858 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" I don't want to over step my boundaries, since they're technically MIL's friends. But I wanted to suggest NILMDTS to them too. But I just don't know if it's my place."</blockquote>




Maybe you can talk to your MIL about NILMDTS and see if she can suggest it to them?
Or include a note with the gifts, saying they're in memory of him and hope they are cherished?

......................... Oregon 14226 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting Mrs Mia Wallace:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" I don't want to over step my boundaries, ... [snip!] ... if she can suggest it to them? Or include a note with the gifts, saying they're in memory of him and hope they are cherished?"



They delivered the baby today, I think it may be to late. I haven't had a stillborn, I don't know how it all "works" you know?



ETA: I did email the link to my MIL, just in case.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
5th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" They delivered the baby today, I think it may be to late. I haven't had a stillborn, I don't know how it all "works" you know? ETA: I did email the link to my MIL, just in case. "</blockquote>



So sad :( Hopefully they get pics. Idk if many people know its ok to get pics. Some people probably think its wieird but I've seen so many on here and I think everyone who has a stillborn should do it.

......................... Oregon 14226 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" They delivered the baby today, ... [snip!] ... Some people probably think its wieird but I've seen so many on here and I think everyone who has a stillborn should do it."


I think it's kind of weird. But 6 months from then you'd probably like to show that picture of you kissing your baby or something like that you know?

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
5th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" I think it's kind of weird. But 6 months from then you'd probably like to show that picture of you kissing your baby or something like that you know? "</blockquote>



If u didn't though you'd regret it. But if you do it u can keep them tucked away if you don't wanna see them. But If u change your mind at least they're there. You can't go back and redo it ya know.



I have a lady who uses our childcare and before her dd she had triplet Boys who died. She took pics and they put them in their spare office type room so that company doesn't have to see them unless they want to. She said she did it cause its still her children.

......................... Oregon 14226 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:</b>" I think it's kind of weird. But ... [snip!] ... type room so that company doesn't have to see them unless they want to. She said she did it cause its still her children."


That's my thoughts exactly.