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Anal sex tips flip off 2 kids; Forks, Washington 1490 posts
4th Jan '13

My SO and I are planning on it tonight. I got lube. Are there any positions that make it less painful? Are there any other tips that you can share?

Liam's Mama 1 child; North Carolina 5474 posts
4th Jan '13

Watching
:)

Novelidea 2 kids; Louisiana 1217 posts
4th Jan '13

Go really slow and try to be as relaxed as possible. Maybe have a glass of wine or two first.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
4th Jan '13

you on top is better then doggy.



I try to like it....but its only real good when I have been drinking or when SO is thoughful enough to think of me and not just him. If you know what I mean

Phallus Cranium fuknutz, NM, Togo 103378 posts
4th Jan '13

Don't use that desensitizing spray :x

Novelidea 2 kids; Louisiana 1217 posts
4th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting .Colleen.:</b>" Don't use that desensitizing spray :x"</blockquote>




So much this! Can not be said enough.

Derpy Hooves Due November 8; 1 child; Virginia 21548 posts
4th Jan '13

I find it better both standing up than hands and knees doggy.

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
4th Jan '13

Go slow. Work it in and out a little at a time. We don't use lube, we like oil.

JustMe&MyThree 3 kids; Chicago, Illinois 515 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting Liam's Mama:" Watching :)"


Ha! This made me laugh...But honestly I hate lube. It makes it slippery and gross feeling. But maybe that's just me.

W.W. 3 kids; Arkansas 7743 posts
4th Jan '13

Personally every position I've tried is just uncomfortable...I just can't enjoy it. Good luck, maybe drink a little first like some other ladies suggested.

flip off 2 kids; Forks, Washington 1490 posts
4th Jan '13

I am excited about it.....i have tried it before and hated it. Hes on paxil and it messes with his sex drive....it's so hard for him to c*m. I read that anal it's better bc it's tighter

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
4th Jan '13

We do anal foreplay, and use toys anally, then I can use those to teach myself to relax. We use clitoral stimulation during these times too. Then we work our way up to anal. If I orgasm clitorally I tense up and anal hurts more.



And I don't like astroglide for anal play or anything, I prefer KY jelly.



It is most definitely better after a couple drinks.

Baking #4!!! Due March 5; 3 kids; West Virginia 270 posts
4th Jan '13

Poop first...lol :)

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting flip off:" I am excited about it.....i have tried it before and hated it. Hes on paxil and it messes with his sex drive....it's so hard for him to c*m. I read that anal it's better bc it's tighter"

SO said my ass isn't tighter it is just different, and he has always been obsessed with my ass. I guess you could say he has an ass fettish.

Amy {OneGirl, TwoBoys} 3 kids; Cincinnati, Oh, United States 24247 posts
4th Jan '13
Quoting #3 Team Pink:" Poop first...lol :)"


lol! this is always my fear when we try, that or farting on him...



we've tried 3 times. twice doggy: hurt like hell even with lube, once in the shower: used baby oil and it was better but still hurt