My SO and I are planning on it tonight. I got lube. Are there any positions that make it less painful? Are there any other tips that you can share?
Go really slow and try to be as relaxed as possible. Maybe have a glass of wine or two first.
you on top is better then doggy.
I try to like it....but its only real good when I have been drinking or when SO is thoughful enough to think of me and not just him. If you know what I mean
Don't use that desensitizing spray :x
<blockquote><b>Quoting .Colleen.:</b>" Don't use that desensitizing spray :x"</blockquote>
So much this! Can not be said enough.
I find it better both standing up than hands and knees doggy.
Go slow. Work it in and out a little at a time. We don't use lube, we like oil.
Quoting Liam's Mama:" Watching :)"
Ha! This made me laugh...But honestly I hate lube. It makes it slippery and gross feeling. But maybe that's just me.
Personally every position I've tried is just uncomfortable...I just can't enjoy it. Good luck, maybe drink a little first like some other ladies suggested.
I am excited about it.....i have tried it before and hated it. Hes on paxil and it messes with his sex drive....it's so hard for him to c*m. I read that a**l it's better bc it's tighter
We do a**l foreplay, and use toys anally, then I can use those to teach myself to relax. We use clitoral stimulation during these times too. Then we work our way up to a**l. If I orgasm clitorally I tense up and a**l hurts more.
And I don't like astroglide for a**l play or anything, I prefer KY jelly.
It is most definitely better after a couple drinks.
Poop first...lol :)
Quoting flip off:" I am excited about it.....i have tried it before and hated it. Hes on paxil and it messes with his sex drive....it's so hard for him to c*m. I read that a**l it's better bc it's tighter"
SO said my ass isn't tighter it is just different, and he has always been obsessed with my ass. I guess you could say he has an ass fettish.
Quoting #3 Team Pink:" Poop first...lol :)"
lol! this is always my fear when we try, that or farting on him...
we've tried 3 times. twice doggy: hurt like hell even with lube, once in the shower: used baby oil and it was better but still hurt