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Locking phones ShellyBurger Due December 3; 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 108 posts
5th Jan '13

Does your SO/DH lock their phone like they are trying to hide something? Do they make a big deal if you ever go near their phone?

K. P. Walsh Due August 5 (girl); Japan 1385 posts
5th Jan '13

No & no.
SO even has me log in to his Facebook and read his notifications to him if I'm on the computer and he's busy.
I don't think I'd wonder about him if he locked his phone, though. I think it's human nature to want a little privacy.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
5th Jan '13

We both take each others phones all the time. We are 100% open with each other. That being said we have no reason to "go through" each others phones. We don't rummage around looking for stuff because there is nothing to be found z

EnnaBennaBanana Due February 2; 2 kids; Maryland 6195 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting ShellyBurger:" Does your SO/DH lock their phone like they are trying to hide something? Do they make a big deal if you ever go near their phone?"


No he doesn't and I don't either.
Idc if he looks through my texts and he doesn't care if I look through his.

★Date311161.69 Due August 31 (boy); TTC since Sep 2012; 1 child; Pennsylvania 4003 posts
5th Jan '13

No. DH doesn't lock his phone. He doesn't mind me using it either.

No Earth Mother 2 kids; Darlington, United Kingdom 7431 posts
5th Jan '13

Nope, we never snoop but then again we have never had trust issues.

lise ♡ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cold, Ol, Canada 67004 posts
5th Jan '13

When SO and I first started hanging out, he always had his phone locked.. I later did find out why. But now, he doesn't lock it and we both are open enough to allow the other person to see their phone.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Jan '13

both of our phones have locks, and we know the codes to them. i lock mine cause i don't want LO using it whenever he wants.

r a b b i t ™ Somewhere, US, United States 27547 posts
5th Jan '13

DH and I both lock our phones, but we have each other's unlock codes. We do it out of precaution should we ever lose them or they get stolen.

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
5th Jan '13

No and no. He used to but that was when he was actually cheating. Now the only time we lock our phones is when LB grabs them.

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
5th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lauren ♥:</b>" Nope, we never snoop but then again we have never had trust issues."</blockquote>




:!: mine stay locked though because my dd has got into my phone and changed the language. It took me 3 days to get it back to English.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
5th Jan '13

My ex used to lock his and made a huuuuuge deal if I ever tried to go near his phone. He would literally get out of bed and go find mine wherever I left it in the apartment rather than letting me use his for a minute even if he wasn't on it. :roll: I never was able to prove whether or not he was doing anything shady, and he claims he just doesn't like other people touching his stuff... Still trying to figure out how he wanted a family. :lol:

No Earth Mother 2 kids; Darlington, United Kingdom 7431 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lauren ♥:</b>" Nope, we never snoop but then again we ... [snip!] ... stay locked though because my dd has got into my phone and changed the language. It took me 3 days to get it back to English."


lmao, maybe i should get a lock too, I caught DS just about to go through the app checkout with

Amanda.M 2 kids; St Albans, Vermont 890 posts
5th Jan '13

His phone doesn't lock, but if I even look at it when it goes off it is the end of the world!

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11484 posts
status 5th Jan '13

SO locks his phone but gave me the password. He locks it so his son can't get into it. I don't lock mine unless I'm at a big get together but he knows the password too.