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ugh would this irritate you or am i overreacting Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
5th Jan '13

so my hubby refuses to give me any opinion on my list of names that i have chosen we dont know what the baby is yet but we should have a gender ultrasound soon he dont want to give any opinions on the names i have chosen i chose two girls names aiyana rose and kaiya jade and makya austin for the boy, i asked him about these names and he said he liked them or didnt mind now im just finding out that he dont like aiyana even after he said he did im so frustrated with him and now we are arguing because he is hurt that i wont do what he wants which is wait to find out the sex before making a list i however think its a good idea to make a list on what we like, its not fair that i have to always go by what he wants to do or he makes a big fuss about it, i dont know what to do, what should i do?

lovemyboyfriend 16 kids; Texas 32385 posts
5th Jan '13

Make your list and just dont say anything til you find out the sex.




Then you two can fuss over names.

Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting AngelWhispers:" so my hubby refuses to give me any opinion on my list of names that i have chosen we dont know what the ... [snip!] ... fair that i have to always go by what he wants to do or he makes a big fuss about it, i dont know what to do, what should i do?"


Aww that was the one name I did like lol. The way me and my DH did it was if we didnt agree on it, it wasnt an option.

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
5th Jan '13

Holy run on sentance, batman!



What should you do? Start using capitolization and proper punctuation.



Honestly, I couldn't even make sense of your post enough to know what the hell exactly that you are asking. It was a jumbled mess that hurt my head.

Dr. Elliot Reid ; 1 child; New Zealand 8808 posts
status 5th Jan '13

I need to take a breath after reading that!



Dont settle for a name you both dont like. I let SO choose my LOs name and I regret letting him go with it because I call DD by her nickname, I cannot call her by her actual name because I dont like it.

Mrs.Dani Due July 3; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Oxnard, California 10272 posts
5th Jan '13

Mine did that all the time. He still does. Tastes change. Originally we both loved Fabian, eventually we both disliked it. Maybe he thinks they suck and don't want to tell you?

I'm me 4 kids; Kentucky 3109 posts
5th Jan '13

we didn't start trying to pick out names until we found out the gender. My hubby really didn't seem very into the whole pregnancy until after the gender was established. I guess it made everything more "real" for him. So, no I wouldn't be mad if he doesn't want to pick a name early on.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
5th Jan '13

hormones much?




Make your list.



I dont blame him, I dont really care to think of many names till we find out the sex...whats the rush.

Meg Bloxham 1 child; Olive Branch, Mississippi 242 posts
5th Jan '13

My SO wouldn't even consider talking about names until we knew the gender, which drove me nuts. Once we did, I picked out her name options right away and he ended up liking Vanessa but said he didn't like Isabelle... then after we picked Vanessa, months later, he was like 'what about Isabelle'. He kept quiet after he saw my glare lol

Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:" Holy run on sentance, batman! What should you do? Start using capitolization and proper punctuation. ... [snip!] ... even make sense of your post enough to know what the hell exactly that you are asking. It was a jumbled mess that hurt my head."

I didn't ask for advice on capitalization (which is how its actually spelled) and punctuation and when someone is already arguing with me while Im typing its hard for me to do proper typing! if you don't have anything to say regarding my post then leave because it has no reference whatsoever!

nursemaya mom to 3! 3 kids; 5 angel babies; Minnesota 16002 posts
5th Jan '13

Holy freak out for no reason! Relax. Make a list and wait until he's ready

624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting Elle With Three &1/2:" Holy run on sentance, batman! What should you do? Start using capitolization and proper punctuation. ... [snip!] ... even make sense of your post enough to know what the hell exactly that you are asking. It was a jumbled mess that hurt my head."


I typically can figure out what the OPs are trying to say when everyone else is complaining, but I found myself lost.

Elle With FOUR! 4 kids; Wichita, KS, United States 18964 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting 624582:" I typically can figure out what the OPs are trying to say when everyone else is complaining, but I found myself lost."


Ditto. I literally could not make sense of this.

Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
5th Jan '13

ok let me explain the issue.....I blew up because he told me to make my own decision so I did, then his mind changes and he gets pissed at me and starts fighting with me because I made a list, so its like you told me to do it and now your getting mad at me its frustrating how bipolar he can be and then give me crap for it and again sorry for the jumbled post my husband was screaming at me during and I had a hard time focusing. I just dont think its fair how he makes all the decisions its like I'm not good enough to make some too he has so far decided on where we live and its in his grandma's basement, he has decided on whether we are going to move out of state away from everyone I know to a place where I know nobody. yes I'm hormonal but I'm also fed up to due to everything being his way or no way and I just want him to be clear with what he wants rather than vague and get mad at me for it later!

624582 Neilton, Washington 9312 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting AngelWhispers:" ok let me explain the issue.....I blew up because he told me to make my own decision so I did, then his ... [snip!] ... being his way or no way and I just want him to be clear with what he wants rather than vague and get mad at me for it later!"


Honestly, I think picking names are the least of your worries. If I was you, I would sit down with him and tell him what you're telling us. He shouldn't be screaming at you, period.