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diiamondchula 18 kids; Toms River, New Jersey 754 posts
5th Jan '13

You guys are ridiculous and know nothing about me. I support my family just fine and I don't live with mommy and daddy and this post wasn't about mentioned was in general. And I'm trying to get my doctorate not being a candidate two different things. Know your shit

Princess. 3 kids; Japan 254 posts
5th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting diiamondchula:</b>" You guys are ridiculous and know nothing about me. I support my family just fine and I don't live with ... [snip!] ... about mentioned was in general. And I'm trying to get my doctorate not being a candidate two different things. Know your shit"</blockquote>




Blah blah blah.

Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11973 posts
5th Jan '13

With our first we TTC a year afer marriage. We had already graduated college, and had our place. I work at home, he has a career outside of home and a side fun job at home lol. With our second, our first was 2 when we decided to TTC. One of my student loans was completely paid off so we knew we would have enough money for second, our oldest was also old enough to be a little helper. Emotionally, financially, and mentally we were ready.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19010 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" You guys are ridiculous and know nothing about me. I support my family just fine and I don't live with ... [snip!] ... about mentioned was in general. And I'm trying to get my doctorate not being a candidate two different things. Know your shit"


Do you and your SO live on your own?

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" You guys are ridiculous and know nothing about me. I support my family just fine and I don't live with ... [snip!] ... about mentioned was in general. And I'm trying to get my doctorate not being a candidate two different things. Know your shit"


you said yesterday/two days ago "I don't have my own place.."

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
5th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting diiamondchula:</b>" You guys are ridiculous and know nothing about me. I support my family just fine and I don't live with ... [snip!] ... about mentioned was in general. And I'm trying to get my doctorate not being a candidate two different things. Know your shit"</blockquote>




Ummm...
Know YOUR shit.
You posted a few days ago about all the debt you how you live for FREE with your other halfs parents.



So no your not taking care of your family. Someone else is by providing one of the most essential things in life.. A roof over their head.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Jan '13

"Does anybody have any tips for me. I dont have my own place and I know since I already have two gorgeous daughters I will have to get a new car with a min of a 6 seater."




so you got your own place in the past three days? No, didn't think so.




wait until you have your own home. and if you want to get a doctorate, i'd wait until you're done with that, too..

Princess. 3 kids; Japan 254 posts
5th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" "Does anybody have any tips for me. I dont have my own place and I know since I already have two gorgeous ... [snip!] ... think so. wait until you have your own home. and if you want to get a doctorate, i'd wait until you're done with that, too.."</blockquote>



Lmaoo.

diiamondchula 18 kids; Toms River, New Jersey 754 posts
5th Jan '13

I live at one of my inlaws home without them they live in a separate place they don't want us to waste our money while I'm in college they want us to save it and I'm thankful for them but if I had to get my own place right now I would do just fine

Princess. 3 kids; Japan 254 posts
5th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting diiamondchula:</b>" I live at one of my inlaws home without them they live in a separate place they don't want us to waste ... [snip!] ... in college they want us to save it and I'm thankful for them but if I had to get my own place right now I would do just fine"</blockquote>



Ok Ms. DiamondChula, I still think you should wait.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19010 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" I live at one of my inlaws home without them they live in a separate place they don't want us to waste ... [snip!] ... in college they want us to save it and I'm thankful for them but if I had to get my own place right now I would do just fine"


Then do that. Get your own place and make sure that you are financially stable before you go and have another child.
You already have two you should know how much of a burden they can be when it comes to money.
If you can REALLY provide EVERYTHING they need (including a place to live) then you can decide if you and your SO are emotionally ready for another child.
But personally I wouldn't until you live in your own place.

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" I live at one of my inlaws home without them they live in a separate place they don't want us to waste ... [snip!] ... in college they want us to save it and I'm thankful for them but if I had to get my own place right now I would do just fine"


that's very nice of them to let you live there for free. so, don't waste your money on having another kid before you're done with school.

Fatty McRunnerPants 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Clearlake, California 59390 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" You guys are ridiculous and know nothing about me. I support my family just fine and I don't live with ... [snip!] ... about mentioned was in general. And I'm trying to get my doctorate not being a candidate two different things. Know your shit"


YOU said you live with your SO's parents for free. You obviously cannot support your lifestyle since you have 4 credit cards that have a balance (seriously, who does this anymore?) and are in 10k in student debt (again, who the fuck pays that kind of money for an education anymore when you can do it sooo much more cheaply?). You're not ready for a baby. Start paying your own fucking bills and then maybe you can say you're adult enough for the two poor kids you already have. Until then, stay on birth control and quit mucking up the gene pool.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting MommaNoodle:" that's very nice of them to let you live there for free. so, don't waste your money on having another kid before you're done with school. "


:!:



right. like i said, OP, don't be selfish. it would be extremely inconsiderate of you to take advantage of what they are doing for you..

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19010 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting MommaNoodle:" that's very nice of them to let you live there for free. so, don't waste your money on having another kid before you're done with school. "


This too. School takes time and money. With you being almost done with school and having two littles to take care of, having another baby would be a HUGE burden.
I would wait till you're done with school as well.