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diiamondchula 18 kids; Toms River, New Jersey 754 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting MommaNoodle:" that's very nice of them to let you live there for free. so, don't waste your money on having another kid before you're done with school. "

This post wasn't even about me. My husband and I aren't having another child for at least two years. I wasjust asking the public when did they know they were ready. Yess I have baby fever but that doesn't mean I'm going pop out another kid. I'm not an idiot andbim getting my assignment chewed because what, because I asked a question

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" This post wasn't even about me. My husband and I aren't having another child for at least two years. ... [snip!] ... I'm going pop out another kid. I'm not an idiot andbim getting my assignment chewed because what, because I asked a question"


well is your "friend" abusing the kindness of in-laws as well or does "she" have her own place?..... it's convenient that this question all of a sudden isn't about you.....



do what you want.

diiamondchula 18 kids; Toms River, New Jersey 754 posts
5th Jan '13

In a previous post I saidbthis was a general question and it isn't for any friend it was a question for the public

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19046 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" This post wasn't even about me. My husband and I aren't having another child for at least two years. ... [snip!] ... I'm going pop out another kid. I'm not an idiot andbim getting my assignment chewed because what, because I asked a question"


You just asked a question the other day about being financially stable before TTC again :?
Lying is not a good trait to have...

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19046 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" In a previous post I saidbthis was a general question and it isn't for any friend it was a question for the public "


Well the public has answered and you don't seem to like the answer :wink:

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:" You just asked a question the other day about being financially stable before TTC again :? Lying is not a good trait to have..."

also about getting healthy/eating healthy before TTC.

diiamondchula 18 kids; Toms River, New Jersey 754 posts
5th Jan '13

I'm not lying I want to be financial perfect time before having a kid and that takes a minimum of two years so how was it lying

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" I'm not lying I want to be financial perfect time before having a kid and that takes a minimum of two years so how was it lying"


well, usually if i want to get some stats on the general public, i make a poll. maybe keep that in mind for next time. it might be more helpful.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting MommaNoodle:" well, usually if i want to get some stats on the general public, i make a poll. maybe keep that in mind for next time. it might be more helpful."

:D



or don't get all defensive if it's "not about you" in the first place.

diiamondchula 18 kids; Toms River, New Jersey 754 posts
5th Jan '13

Haha you guys are fucking hilarious. Sike

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting diiamondchula:" Haha you guys are fucking hilarious. Sike "


*psyche.

Belle De Jour Due October 8 (boy); 2 kids; Kentucky 19046 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" *psyche."


WOMP! :lol:

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
5th Jan '13

I wonder if her degree is based around being an idiot who lies on the internet..
hmm I GueSS wELL NEVa kNO

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
5th Jan '13

I didn't see anywhere in the OP where she asked about herself?
And it's not like she said "I want to TTC, when did you know you were ready?"
I don't really get why everyone came in here jumping on the Op?
Her life is her business and you ladies weren't asked about HER life.



Anyway OP, it's all up to you and your DH. Ppl can talk all they want about not living for free and blah blah blah. But as far as I'm concerned if your SO's family is comfortable with you living there for free I see nothing wrong with it. At least you're not living off of the system like a lot do. My parents helped me out a lot while pregnant with DS and still would. My mom knew how bad a I wanted a baby and told me to go for it. That no matter what she would be here to help and she wanted a grand baby. Now she wants another one lol.
But with number two I wanted to be financially stable. It didn't have to be perfect or have tons of money/rolling in the cash but enough to feed, diaper and keep a roof over both heads. I've been in that positions for months now and still no number two. You can never be 100% right.

diiamondchula 18 kids; Toms River, New Jersey 754 posts
5th Jan '13
Quoting Jenna+1:" I didn't see anywhere in the OP where she asked about herself? And it's not like she said "I want to ... [snip!] ... keep a roof over both heads. I've been in that positions for months now and still no number two. You can never be 100% right."


Thank you. I felt like everyone was jumping all over me. Thanks once again