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Wondering!! babydelicious 2 kids; Connecticut 168 posts
6th Jan '13

Do you ever realize that people on this website are very judgmental? but if they have an issue they want to talk about it and on the bottom they post "DONT quote or put anything nasty or mean " blah blah?

Sofie+#2 Due March 18; TTC since Jun 2014; 1 child; Sheffield, So, United Kingdom 7391 posts
6th Jan '13

Here we go!



People put don't quote because they need to vent but don't want it to stay on the Internet.

babydelicious 2 kids; Connecticut 168 posts
6th Jan '13

idk where u read it but when i skim i do see people .. vent but dont quote when they want opinions.

Sofie+#2 Due March 18; TTC since Jun 2014; 1 child; Sheffield, So, United Kingdom 7391 posts
6th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting babydelicious:</b>" idk where u read it but when i skim i do see people .. vent but dont quote when they want opinions."</blockquote>




I have no idea what you're talking about.

Cordelia's Mom 33 kids; Bakersfield, California 3685 posts
6th Jan '13
Quoting Sofia's Mummy♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting babydelicious:</b>" idk where u read it but when i skim i do ... [snip!] ... do see people .. vent but dont quote when they want opinions."</blockquote> I have no idea what you're talking about."


Yeah, I thought I was following but I don't get it anymore.

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
6th Jan '13

You open yourself to judgement on this site. People are very understanding when the circumstances call for it. But do you really need someone babying you? Oh it's ok those are just some mean girls. Lets get you back to the land of rainbows and daisies.

Lin Brown 2 kids; Tunnel Hill, Georgia 1804 posts
6th Jan '13

Its not being judgemental its called free speech and everyone gives their own opinions. Get over yourself!

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
6th Jan '13

People only judge you based on what you tell them. And you can't blame them for that. If you ask for advice, then expect advice and opinions that could possibly be very different from yours. Sometimes honesty can be hard to swallow.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5396 posts
6th Jan '13

I don't understand what asking people not to quote has to do with being judgemental :?

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
6th Jan '13
Quoting xTJ:" I don't understand what asking people not to quote has to do with being judgemental :?"


I think what she's trying to say is why do judgmental people judge people in threads, but on their own thread they ask for no judgement at all.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5396 posts
6th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I think what she's trying to say is why do judgmental people judge people in threads, but on their own thread they ask for no judgement at all. "</blockquote>



Yeah but that's different from the no quoting thing. People generally write that as they want the option to remove the post later on, I'm assuming if they are sharing something quite private.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
6th Jan '13
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I think what she's trying to say is ... [snip!] ... write that as they want the option to remove the post later on, I'm assuming if they are sharing something quite private."


This whole post stems from her last one. I'm just guessing that one of the ladies that commented on it made a post not too long ago asking for people not to quote or judge and she's upset and trying to bring that in here.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5396 posts
6th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" This whole post stems from her last one. I'm just guessing that one of the ladies that commented on ... [snip!] ... on it made a post not too long ago asking for people not to quote or judge and she's upset and trying to bring that in here. "</blockquote>




Ah I see, didn't realise.

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
6th Jan '13

Most of the women on here are like me...blunt.