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does your so ever.... KAshcraft♥ 50 kids; Savannah, Georgia 343 posts
7th Jan '13

make you feel so unattractive? i swear mine can't do a day without looking at other women and making me feel like crap. im 7 months prego and ive only gained 8lbs so far because i'm scared of losing him because im afraid he'll think im fat and leave or cheat on me....has anyone felt this way?

Mrs. Post-tato Head 4 kids; 1 angel baby; 6789 posts
7th Jan '13

No, my husband is, and always was, extremely kind, loving, and supportive, but especially when I'm pregnant, then he's extra sweet.



I think your SO just sounds like a douche... :?

user banned Due September 18; 1 child; California 21617 posts
7th Jan '13

Nope. But I understand being insecure while pregnant. I doubt him looking at other girls has anything to do with thinking you're not attractive, it's just a man thing. You should talk to him about it and tell him how you're feeling.
And I hope that you aren't purposely avoiding the nutrition that you need because you're afraid of getting fat.

♥. 2 kids; making moves in, TX, United States 1114 posts
7th Jan '13

Sweetie if he makes you constantly feel that way then something is wrong with that relationship and you need to remove yourself from such negativity i'm not one to pass judgement on others relationships because mine is nowhere NEAR perfect but you shouldn't feel that way when you're in a relationship with someone and he should respect you enough NOT to treat you that way.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
7th Jan '13

No :(



If he looks at other women, he doesn't do it in a way way I would notice... He always tells me im *pretty*



When I was preg I was really hard in myself... Maybe its just ur hormones??

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
7th Jan '13

My ex was a douche when I was pregnant and was also in a relationship with his ex-girlfriend while we were dating.



But, I hope you're not seriously dieting or anything while you're pregnant because you're afraid of getting fat and losing him.
If he leaves you because you gain weight while you're pregnant, he doesn't love you and you can do better.

Van West Auckland, NZ, New Zealand 3075 posts
status 7th Jan '13

No he doesn't make me feel unattractive. Sometimes I just do and he usually ends up making me feel better. Maybe you should talk to him about looking at other women and how it makes you feel, it's very rude for him to do that to you.

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy Due September 10; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; California 29988 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" My ex was a douche when I was pregnant and was also in a relationship with his ex-girlfriend while we ... [snip!] ... fat and losing him. If he leaves you because you gain weight while you're pregnant, he doesn't love you and you can do better."

I totally agree, Have some self confidence OP dont let your SO define who you are.

user banned 1 child; Illinois 3734 posts
7th Jan '13

I think I make myslef feel unattractive. Try to remember youre not getting fat youre pregnant. Its you that is giving him a child not those other girls. I think everyone glances at other people.

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20862 posts
7th Jan '13

no he doesn't... that is so sad :(