Thank you everyone who responded. Your opinions and comments were greatly appreciated.
I would disown him. He's not worth the headache IMO. Also he shouldn't be treated like a child. He's 23. I'm 23 too and I've been taking care of my self financially and emotionally since I was 14! He needs to get off his lazy butt.
I would cut him off. He's a big boy, he should figure it the fuck out. If he has issues they can go to therapy to resolve them later on, her giving him everything he wants isn't solving anything.
I wouldn't talk to him until he can show some proper respect. I also wouldn't be paying any of his bills.
I guess it would depend on why i didn't raise him. Probably i would tell him I just couldnt afford to help
Quoting Raωkeℓ:" I would cut him off. He's a big boy, he should figure it the fuck out. If he has issues they can go to therapy to resolve them later on, her giving him everything he wants isn't solving anything."
This. He's acting like a fucking douche.
I would cut him off, she shouldn't have to pay for past mistakes all her life! people make mistakes big and small, if he wants to be part of his gf family then let him so they can see how manipulative and ungrateful he is.
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" He's had a couple jobs in the past, but he gets fired from them just weeks after starting them. I've ... [snip!] ... homeless since he has no willpower to shower and clean himself up enough to get a job and keep it. >.< Its disgusting. "
Wut. That is fucking gross. She needs to seriously cut that shit out and let him figure life out on his own. He is never going to change if she enables this bullshit. I can't believe he has a girlfriend... like, seriously, lol.
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" You have nooo idea lol. I couldn't even stand in the same room with him while I was pregnant. He made ... [snip!] ... thought of him even having kids scares me and I instantly feel sorry for any children that might have his DNA in the future."
Oh that just sucks :?
I agree with you, I'd feel sorry for his children, too. I wouldn't want more people on this Earth with a mentality like his.. it's just disgusting. Does she not care that he is like this? Like, how can you be with someone like that?
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" That's what I told her. I don't hold it against her what happened over 20 years ago, why should he get ... [snip!] ... his gfs parents already know how he is and they told their daughter that he's a mooch. They don't let him around them either."
well sounds like he is burning bridges everywhere, serves him right tho. And my hubby took psychology too he uses some of what he learned but he doesn't claim to know it all and at least he is man enough to admit that he himself has issues a true psychologist is someone who has had issues in life and has over come them in my opinion otherwise how can you truly relate to the people you treat?