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B( o )( o )BS! 3 kids; Oregon 25900 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting Miss-Maia's Mommy:" At that rate he can definitely give your son a child support check if he doesn't stop."


yep!

B( o )( o )BS! 3 kids; Oregon 25900 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting whack a mole crazy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miss-Maia's Mommy:</b>" Im sorry hun. He sounds a little like ... [snip!] ... feeling sick and refused to rest with me then went out to do more smoking and drinking and now refuses to come home. Bleeeh.."


That doesn't sound like a weed problem, honestly. I'd expect the opposite. I don't want to worry you further, but are you sure it's just pot?

whack a mole crazy Due January 23 (boy); Nebraska 2651 posts
7th Jan '13

Sorry about typos, my ipods keys are off i swear.. Bare with me!

whack a mole crazy Due January 23 (boy); Nebraska 2651 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting B( o )( o )BS!:</b>" That doesn't sound like a weed problem, honestly. I'd expect the opposite. I don't want to worry you further, but are you sure it's just pot?"</blockquote>




Well i dont ever go out with him and he swears he is only smoking pot but he is drinking heavily too.. I have no idea what to believe anymore. And the fact that he told me he can not produce semen anymore, i know that sounds weirs but he used to have a decent anount of sperm come out and now he barly gets a drop... There is something very wrong with his body.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting whack a mole crazy:</b>" I am getting hurt by all of this but i am wanting to hang around to see if he snaps out of it when his ... [snip!] ... born, i will leave. The asnwer is so obvious but the fact that i am very in love with him and care about him it makes it hard."</blockquote>




I left my ex when I was 7 months preg, the only reason he changed is because he went to prison, lol but hes still a player, hes still an ass, I didn't care too much about myself, or I wouldn't have been with him in 1st place, but the thought of him treating me that way, in front if my child, Dean didn't deserve it, to this day he has never seen his father disrespect me, he sees his dad talk shit to his gf, and dean's paternal grand mother, and my son dosnt have respect for them either, because his father dosnt tell him different, in my house he answers yes mamm over there he only answers to his father, its so sad, but not much I can do besides tell Dean he needs to be respectfull of other females as well,

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting B( o )( o )BS!:" That doesn't sound like a weed problem, honestly. I'd expect the opposite. I don't want to worry you further, but are you sure it's just pot?"


This..



this all seems very fishy to me. I feel like he's on way more that just weed.

whack a mole crazy Due January 23 (boy); Nebraska 2651 posts
7th Jan '13

Ive had suspicion about him doing more, i ask him a the time. Obviously he says no... How would i catch him though?

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting whack a mole crazy:" Ive had suspicion about him doing more, i ask him a the time. Obviously he says no... How would i catch him though?"


If he's hiding it that well I don't know how you could prove it, honestly. I don't know how you could sneak an at home drug test to check, either.
Ask him if he's willing to take an at-home drug test? Honestly if he reacts negatively, and flips out, I would suggest leaving because then he is seriously hiding something. I would not want my child around someone doing shit like that.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting whack a mole crazy:</b>" Ive had suspicion about him doing more, i ask him a the time. Obviously he says no... How would i catch him though?"</blockquote>




I used to slang, I was pretty shifty, had an answer for everything, I would look into *whoo hes spending time with, the house, who thier friends are, where hes spending time, I doubt he has anything where ur staying at, phone records, bunch of calls for couple seconds in row, those would be drops/pickups he would prob carry whatever it is on him at all times...

whack a mole crazy Due January 23 (boy); Nebraska 2651 posts
7th Jan '13

His friends do acid and cocaine.. When he comes home he doesnt appear to be tripping. Just very tired looking.

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting whack a mole crazy:</b>" Ive had suspicion about him doing more, ... [snip!] ... of calls for couple seconds in row, those would be drops/pickups he would prob carry whatever it is on him at all times..."


Oh dayum girl, look at you. I know who I need to call when I need a private investigator :lol:

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
7th Jan '13
Quoting whack a mole crazy:" His friends do acid and cocaine.. When he comes home he doesnt appear to be tripping. Just very tired looking."


:shock:
You think he's hanging out with people doing acid and cocaine and not participating? Psh...... yea right.



:(

whack a mole crazy Due January 23 (boy); Nebraska 2651 posts
7th Jan '13

I know i know. I turn a blind eye to things i dont want to b true :( and he has weed in our house in the cabit in the kitchen. He has it in his car and coat. He has his pipe in the center console of his car. He doesnt sell at our house he goes to partys and sells there.. He comes home with over a 100 dollars sometimes in 20s from selling.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Raωkeℓ:</b>" Oh dayum girl, look at you. I know who I need to call when I need a private investigator :lol:"</blockquote>




Me and my ex used to slang and tried hiding it from eachother lol we were quite comical now that I think of it lol

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
7th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting whack a mole crazy:</b>" I know i know. I turn a blind eye to things i dont want to b true :( and he has weed in our house in ... [snip!] ... sell at our house he goes to partys and sells there.. He comes home with over a 100 dollars sometimes in 20s from selling."</blockquote>




Umm ive never sold weed, but ive never seen a pothead activley selling 100's of dollars of weed in.1 night, its possible but alot of potheads that sold maybe made enough to support thier own habit,
Plus unless hes doing it to support his own habit, which could be true, u don't usually sell stuff u use, because, u use it and cuts out what u would need to sell,
I used 1 thing and I always sold another,
Dont get high on ur own supply... If hes going to parties he could be slanging pills, if his friends use acid and coke, they prob arnt selling that,



Hows his temper?? dialated pupils? Wieght loss?? Sleep patterns..