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Had sex and bleeding alot JayMarie* Due September 3; 16 kids; Charlotte, North Carolina 37 posts
8th Jan '13

I'm 6weeks & 3 days and I just had sex and when he pulled out blood came out like water it was light pink and I'm not cramping or anything but I'm a tad bit worried every time I go to the ER they check the baby & always tell me everything's ok the doctor told me unless I'm not having any blood clots or cramping I'm fine but that was alot of blood it was every where does anyone have advice thanks

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
8th Jan '13

Your cervix gets irritated and can bleed easily after sex especially if it was rough.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting JayMarie*:" I'm 6weeks & 3 days and I just had sex and when he pulled out blood came out like water it was light ... [snip!] ... not having any blood clots or cramping I'm fine but that was alot of blood it was every where does anyone have advice thanks"


What do you mean "every time you go to the ER they check the baby"? How many times have you been & why?

❤ Mama to 2 boys 2 kids; New York 286 posts
8th Jan '13

I think you should go to the Er because like you say even though there is no cramping but it was a lot of blood it's better to be safe than sorry

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
8th Jan '13

If it keeps happening after having sex I would quit having sex. Sex can cause irritation to your cervix and cause bleeding.

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
8th Jan '13

Intercourse can irritate your cervix, its very normal. I've had so much bleeding this pregnancy, totally normal. If it's dark red and continues, then I would worry.

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10423 posts
8th Jan '13

It never hurts to be safe. If they refuse to see you just bc you keep coming in, you can sue, whether there's something wrong with the baby or not. They can, under NO CIRCUMSTANCES, turn you away because "you come in too many times" That doesn't sound normal to me. How much blood was it? If it was A LOT alot, I'd go in just to be safe. They say anything, hey, it's better to be safe than something be really wrong and you end up having horrible complications from it.

JayMarie* Due September 3; 16 kids; Charlotte, North Carolina 37 posts
8th Jan '13

I been 3 times because I spot alot
<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" What do you mean "every time you go to the ER they check the baby"? How many times have you been & why?"</blockquote>

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
8th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JayMarie*:</b>" I been 3 times because I spot alot <blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" What ... [snip!] ... What do you mean "every time you go to the ER they check the baby"? How many times have you been & why?"</blockquote>"</blockquote>




Well honestly there is nothing they can do for you other than tell you what's going on. Might as well just save the time and money. If you start cramping or passing clots then call your OB.

Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting JayMarie*:" I'm 6weeks & 3 days and I just had sex and when he pulled out blood came out like water it was light ... [snip!] ... not having any blood clots or cramping I'm fine but that was alot of blood it was every where does anyone have advice thanks"

sometimes your cervix could be very vascular which would make you more prone to bleeding and your uterus has a large supply of blood going to it to keep the baby alive and growing and if its light its ok he could have busted one of those veins and if its pink it leads me to believe its surface bleeding. This may be tmi but did he get off in you? because if he did that could explain why it would look like there was a lot due to your blood mixing with his seminal fluid or if he didn't you do have more discharge during pregnancy as well your body really amps up cleaning itself out so no worries hun. if you see bright red blood with clots and cramps go to the doc, but for now I think your just fine good luck sweetie.

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
8th Jan '13

Spotting is normal early on. As long as you're not cramp, and the blood isn't bright red, I personally wouldn't worry unless of course it continues. Wear a panty liner and if it gets full, go in.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
8th Jan '13

Do you realize there is nothing they can do about spotting? I don't know what people keeping saying "better to be safe"...a sin safe from what? Unless you are hemmorhaging, even if you were to miscarry, there is nothing that can be done for you about that at 6 weeks. Seriously. And even though the ER might not be able to turn you away, you CAN loose your medicaid if they deem you to be abusing it. I knwo someone whose CHILD lost medicaid because she was constantly taking her ot ER for cold s& such. She did get it reinstated, but they don't want ot pay for the ER if the ER is not needed.



I am NOT trying to be an a*****e. I've had miscarriages, a lot of them in fact. And I can promise you, going to the ER for spotting is pointless. Completely. You only need the ER if you are having cramping, bleeding more than a pad an hour or have a fever along with bleeding & cramping. Otherwise, there isn't much they will do for you except make you wait a bunch of hours & tell you to follow up with your Dr.

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
8th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" Do you realize there is nothing they can do about spotting? I don't know what people keeping saying "better ... [snip!] ... there isn't much they will do for you except make you wait a bunch of hours & tell you to follow up with your Dr."</blockquote>




Actually it's pointless even if you are misscarrying they will send you home yo pass it and ask you to come back for a d&c if nesaicary.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" Do you realize there is nothing they can ... [snip!] ... it's pointless even if you are misscarrying they will send you home yo pass it and ask you to come back for a d&c if nesaicary."

I agree but she's 17 - so they may walk her through it a tad more, I HOPE.



I went to the ER during my 1st miscarriage. After that I never went back again. It was totally pointless & made the experience 10x worse than it needed to be.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" Do you realize there is nothing they can ... [snip!] ... it's pointless even if you are misscarrying they will send you home yo pass it and ask you to come back for a d&c if nesaicary."


This is true too. Clots or stay home pretty much. I went in with my first pregnancy because of clots, and it was a good thing. I went in with spotting with 2 and 3 and it was useless. This time unless I'm bleeding to death pretty much I am staying home lol