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I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49283 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting justanothamotha:" I agree but she's 17 - so they may walk her through it a tad more, I HOPE. I went to the ER during my ... [snip!] ... After that I never went back again. It was totally pointless & made the experience 10x worse than it needed to be."


I'm thankful I did my first time. It ended up being a tubal. Even then I didn't go in until I passed a clot or 2. The other 2 times my husband was paranoid and drug me in because of the experience the 1st time.

Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" This is true too. Clots or stay home pretty much. I went in with my first pregnancy because of clots, ... [snip!] ... went in with spotting with 2 and 3 and it was useless. This time unless I'm bleeding to death pretty much I am staying home lol"


I lost both my pregnancies at home, I went to the ER only because I was clotting and could barely walk cause of the pain, they sent me home with pain medication and I lost them in my pad they were twins with the 2nd pregnancy, I buried them then 4 months later go pregnant with my son. thankfully I didnt need a dnc with both pregnancies I lost.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I'm thankful I did my first time. It ended up being a tubal. Even then I didn't go in until I passed ... [snip!] ... in until I passed a clot or 2. The other 2 times my husband was paranoid and drug me in because of the experience the 1st time."

I am all for seeing your Dr if you are having an issue, and they can easily do your U/S but ER is over the top IMO unless you are having a significant issue (and spotting isn't significant). Also, she's been 3 times according to her & they have checked the baby each time. So she knows she has an intrauterine pregnancy - so tubal should not be a risk factor at all at this point.



But yes, tubals due require medical interventions. :?
I also love Dr Who. :wink:

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49283 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting justanothamotha:" I am all for seeing your Dr if you are having an issue, and they can easily do your U/S but ER is over ... [snip!] ... not be a risk factor at all at this point. But yes, tubals due require medical interventions. :? I also love Dr Who. :wink:"


I had no idea it was a tubal. I thought the pain was normal and stuff. And I started spotting and then 3 or 4 days later passed some clots, and went in. I ended up on chemo meds to terminate. WORST. FEELING. EVER. knowing your baby is dying inside you while you're in miserable pain ugh...



Hah we live for it :oops: our son is named Rory William even :D

Angela Dukes Due April 4; Japan 2 posts
8th Jan '13

when i started bleeding it was light pink..I went to the E.R they told me there was no fetal heartbeat.The baby was the size of a six week old baby and i was suppose to be 12 wks.I had no cramping or anything but 3 days later i did have a miscarriage.I think you should see your doc ASAP!

Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I had no idea it was a tubal. I thought the pain was normal and stuff. And I started spotting and then ... [snip!] ... baby is dying inside you while you're in miserable pain ugh... Hah we live for it :oops: our son is named Rory William even :D"

omg that is so freaking sad I couldn't imagine bless your heart.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49283 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Wolf Spirit:" omg that is so freaking sad I couldn't imagine bless your heart."


Yeah, it messed me up for almost a year. It was rough.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Angela Dukes:" when i started bleeding it was light pink..I went to the E.R they told me there was no fetal heartbeat.The ... [snip!] ... to be 12 wks.I had no cramping or anything but 3 days later i did have a miscarriage.I think you should see your doc ASAP!"

I am sorry momma. It is quite normal for there to be a lapse in time between when a baby passes & when your hCg levels drop enough for your body to actually start the process of miscarriage. :( It doesn't mean there is anything you could have done differently if you had known sooner & a natural miscarriage is always preferable to a D&C if possible as it has the least chance of causing any long term issues with scarring & such. It is never easy no matter how it happens.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I had no idea it was a tubal. I thought the pain was normal and stuff. And I started spotting and then ... [snip!] ... baby is dying inside you while you're in miserable pain ugh... Hah we live for it :oops: our son is named Rory William even :D"

I had a Dr try to get to me to take that methotrexate once (not tubal) and I didn't want to because I had heard it made you feel awful on top of what you already feel like. So I waited it out. In a tubal case you can't though & if you want to save your tube I am not sure there is any other options. I am sorry you went through that.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49283 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting justanothamotha:" I had a Dr try to get to me to take that methotrexate once (not tubal) and I didn't want to because I ... [snip!] ... can't though & if you want to save your tube I am not sure there is any other options. I am sorry you went through that."


Thanks :) I'm a lot better now. I'm just full of medical issues with pregnancy haha. With my second pregnancy, my placenta and stuff never quit growing so by 14ish weeks it was already like 18+ weeks in size. I ended up having to have a D&C there lol.. Then my son got stuck in my hip socket and had to have a csection... I'm wondering what will happen with this one! lmao

Moon*Siren 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Williamstown, Kentucky 2136 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Yeah, it messed me up for almost a year. It was rough. "


I bet hun, I know it would me as well

Brookelynbaby Due April 7 (boy); Duluth, Georgia 64 posts
8th Jan '13

I had this now have a very healthy baby boy and 27 weeks preggers! I was 13 weeks when I bleed, they were able to hear the heartbeat after! Went to the hospital when it happened, they pt me on bed rest for a few weeks and NO SEX or masturbation.. Due to the bleeding. Hope to see you updating and have all around perfect pregnancy!

JayMarie* Due September 3; 16 kids; Charlotte, North Carolina 37 posts
8th Jan '13

thanks so much
Quoting Brookelynbaby:" I had this now have a very healthy baby boy and 27 weeks preggers! I was 13 weeks when I bleed, they ... [snip!] ... a few weeks and NO SEX or masturbation.. Due to the bleeding. Hope to see you updating and have all around perfect pregnancy! "