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Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
8th Jan '13

He says he's calling the cops, so if they come here I'll talk to them.

Melissa J. B. Due February 19; 6 kids; Redding, California 184 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Princess Hayley:" of course you do you are his mother and you have more parental rights than him"

Not in the USA, each parent has equal rights to the child, married or not actually

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 15766 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Mason'sMommy;:" He says he's calling the cops, so if they come here I'll talk to them."


Did you threaten to leave country all ready to him? :/



Good luck!

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Clk:" That's kind of sad, a child has nothing to do with his/her parent cheating and shouldn't be punished."



Here the only factor in anything when cheating happens, is who pays spousal support, if he cheats he pays it, if she cheats, she pays it. Thats it.



If court find anyone of the parents unfit to parent full time (custody battle) its the judges decision who gets full custody.

Skitti 17 kids; Grand Haven Charter Township, Michigan 1508 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Mason'sMommy;:" He says he's calling the cops, so if they come here I'll talk to them."


RIGHT NOW?

Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11529 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" Here the only factor in anything when cheating happens, is who pays spousal support, if he cheats ... [snip!] ... If court find anyone of the parents unfit to parent full time (custody battle) its the judges decision who gets full custody."


I believe in the U.S the one cheated on can get more money but that is about it. It can actually be really hard to take away parental rights. In most states you have to have someone else willing to adopt child before you can sign away rights, aka you have to get married again.

Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
8th Jan '13

he says he was calling now.
if he doesn't, when his mom gets home i'm walking to the police station to ask about my rights.

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Clk:" I believe in the U.S the one cheated on can get more money but that is about it. It can actually be ... [snip!] ... states you have to have someone else willing to adopt child before you can sign away rights, aka you have to get married again."


Ya, its easier here. You dont need to get married to have dads rights taken away or anyone to adopt your kids.



Hell my friends bf adopted her dd 2 yrs ago, just before their son was born. They are not married, lo's dad is on the bc, and he didnt sign anything at all and still pays support for her. She has her moms bf last name too.



Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11529 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" Ya, its easier here. You dont need to get married to have dads rights taken away or anyone to adopt ... [snip!] ... dad is on the bc, and he didnt sign anything at all and still pays support for her. She has her moms bf last name too. "

ah Lucky. My oldest nephew has never even met his biological Dad and he is twenty-two now. His biological Dad wanted to give up his rights, nut they had to wait for my sister to get married again. It was such a hassle with the courts.

Mason'sMommy; 1 child; Welland, Ontario 1233 posts
8th Jan '13

i don't think he has a say
because he's had a year to get my papers out and our sons
and has been sitting on his ass.
he had 3,000 dollars to do it but instead bought tv and computer!

user banned 3 kids; Ontario 10942 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Clk:" ah Lucky. My oldest nephew has never even met his biological Dad and he is twenty-two now. His biological ... [snip!] ... wanted to give up his rights, nut they had to wait for my sister to get married again. It was such a hassle with the courts."



Realy thats stupid. The court doesnt strip deadbeat parents of their rights there?
My oldest dd's dad had his rights taken wawy when she was 2 yrs old or so. And was ordered to pay child support still. But he quit his job like 2 months later and been on welfare ever since. That was 8 yrs ago or so....dd is 10.5 now.

Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11529 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting crazy coupon lady:" Realy thats stupid. The court doesnt strip deadbeat parents of their rights there? My oldest dd's ... [snip!] ... still. But he quit his job like 2 months later and been on welfare ever since. That was 8 yrs ago or so....dd is 10.5 now."

It will if parent(s) are abusive/neglectful, but not just for not paying child support or not being apart of child's life. Both my sister and her ex were trying to get his rights removed. They both knew he wasn't willing or ready to be a father. My sister did finally remarry five years later, and he signed his rights away in court.

.Sweet Dee. 1 child; Arkansas 4239 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Mason'sMommy;:" i don't think he has a say because he's had a year to get my papers out and our sons and has been sitting on his ass. he had 3,000 dollars to do it but instead bought tv and computer!"


what do you mean 'get your papers out'?
maybe you should call the policed. simply tell them you have been held there against your will this whole time and you just want to go home. were ya'll married in the us or canada?

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" If it were me in the position, which I can't say this is right, but I would just pack up and leave when ... [snip!] ... he wants to press charges, he would have to find me and I would get a lawyer here for it once it goes through. But that's me. "


:!: I would have done this too in this situation. I wouldn't have said anything, just up and left. He made his choice and he made it clear.

These City Walls 1 child; San Diego, California 2605 posts
8th Jan '13

Won't you be deported?