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whatever wyatt.earp. 2 kids; Tacoma, Washington 2166 posts
8th Jan '13

damn it all.

Nomo 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
8th Jan '13

uh yeah....


i would be thinking there was another girl honeslty.. why would he want to hide his shit and then tell you to pay for something? hello its marriage.. if your a SAHM obviously you need to use his money. very sketchy

[38 weeks!] Due May 31 (boy); 1 child; Colorado 3032 posts
8th Jan '13

Absolutely sketchy.



Is there any way you can go online and look at your phone bill? I would be doing some more investigating...

JΔS Georgia 70894 posts
8th Jan '13

Don't ignore your instincts. I don't even know Tim, never got to meet him but too many red flags have been going up. Please don't ignore them. You can message me on facebook.

Fanson Momma 1 child; 2 angel babies; North Carolina 6790 posts
8th Jan '13

The wrong number thing is definitely very obscure. I am not one to tell someone to start snooping, but if I were you, I would be doing a bit of investigative work!

ThatsAlotaNuts Australia 2314 posts
status 8th Jan '13

that is sketchy as hell.
id leave, f**k being treated like you dont even exist, he probably sent flowers because he felt a little guilty...that he is sleeping with someone else, i would go ape shit if DH was ignoring our youngest and only paying attention to the oldest.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15523 posts
8th Jan '13

Yes sounds like he's up to something. Can you check your phone bill?

Commander Shepard 18 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 6447 posts
8th Jan '13

I agree. It is very weird. I'd be suspicious and annoyed.

Inc0gnitus 2 kids; Anchorage, Alaska 4325 posts
8th Jan '13

That's not only sketchy behavior, but a little scary tbh. I would not be comfortable living there whether he was cheating or not.

Mommy to a Gemini! 1 child; Oroville, California 134 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" uh yeah.... i would be thinking there was another girl honeslty.. why would he want to hide his ... [snip!] ... and then tell you to pay for something? hello its marriage.. if your a SAHM obviously you need to use his money. very sketchy"

This!

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
8th Jan '13

That's very sketchy but not necessarily pointing to cheating. He just sounds like he's being a dick. It is not okay for you and your son to be treated like that.

Mother of One plus One 2 kids; Ware Shoals, South Carolina 4418 posts
8th Jan '13

Time to Do one of the things us women do best,become a private investigator.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7830 posts
8th Jan '13
Quoting Calm yo tits!:" Absolutely sketchy. Is there any way you can go online and look at your phone bill? I would be doing some more investigating..."


Agreed.



You need to let him know you're not okay with the behavior. Do some searching. Do some investigating. Find out what's going on. You're is wife. You ARE his personal business. Don't let him treat you and your children like shit.

user banned New York 15996 posts
8th Jan '13

ALL of this points to the direction of another female. You need to finally ask him straight up what's going on.

......................... Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
8th Jan '13

That's really sketchy.