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Horny much ;) ****tmi Skye Wilkinson Due April 6 (girl); 2 kids; Pennsylvania 16 posts
9th Jan '13

So my fiance and I have quite a sex life. We have it about 2 to 3 times a day. Here lately sex has become bothersome. I'd rather be left alone. The bad thing about it is that I really want it but it isn't doing anything for me. It's easier and more effective for me to just get offf myself. It's kind of causing him to be a little snappy......i never experienced this with my other pregnancies. Any suggestions?

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
9th Jan '13

I think he needs to figure out other outlets for his energy, than snapping no his pregnant wife.



Tell him to start working out.

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
9th Jan '13

We are a twice a day type of couple. But it can't always work out that way! You need to have other healthy activities to engage in as well! How old is he?

Skye Wilkinson Due April 6 (girl); 2 kids; Pennsylvania 16 posts
9th Jan '13

Ugh, he does. Maybe snappy wasnt the best word to use. Uptight maybe? Frustrated? Hes just used to getting it, now he isn't.....

Skye Wilkinson Due April 6 (girl); 2 kids; Pennsylvania 16 posts
9th Jan '13

Hes 28 years old

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
9th Jan '13
Quoting Skye Wilkinson:" Ugh, he does. Maybe snappy wasnt the best word to use. Uptight maybe? Frustrated? Hes just used to getting it, now he isn't....."


Psychological reactions to stress in men often trigger an intense need to have sex or an intense need to retract from sex. When they feel the need to have sex incessantly, it's advised that they work out to redirect the energy.

Daesey 1 child; 2 angel babies; Kansas 1482 posts
9th Jan '13

If you're not feeling like having sex with him.... you could still "help him out" --- that always satisfies my hubby when I'm not in the mood for actual sex. A "handy" in the shower, some mouth or b**b action. Most guys don't care as much about HOW they get off as much as that they get stimulation from their partner or that you're at least involved.

roflcopterrr Arkansas 478 posts
9th Jan '13
Quoting Daesey:" If you're not feeling like having sex with him.... you could still "help him out" --- that always satisfies ... [snip!] ... care as much about HOW they get off as much as that they get stimulation from their partner or that you're at least involved."


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** 19 kids; Conway, Arkansas 3576 posts
9th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Daesey:</b>" If you're not feeling like having sex with him.... you could still "help him out" --- that always satisfies ... [snip!] ... care as much about HOW they get off as much as that they get stimulation from their partner or that you're at least involved."</blockquote>




This!