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Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting xTJ:" Cont.... So why has it been possible for this victim blaming to exist for so long when it comes to ... [snip!] ... that men just can't control themselves so it makes it ok..... I feel we are going backwards. What do you think?"


I agree we are going backwards. I swear women need to go on a massive castration spree on these douche bags. Maybe then they would think twice about it. The only problem is women do lie about it all the time. It is really hard to prove it wasnt consensual except in extreme cases. So yeah I think men get away with way to much shit because they are men, but I think the women who lie about rape are just as bad.

see ya stalkers 1 child; 1 angel baby; Georgia 603 posts
10th Jan '13

this made me cry. i have no hope for the world anymore

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" Wow thats terrible... Its almostlike rape ... [snip!] ... want to deal with it or 40% are false accusations? Because only 2% of reported rape is a false accusation not anywhere near 40%"


someone posted a link i can try to find it..
hold on.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
10th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting justanothamotha:</b>" How absolutely hideous. One of the men involved in the attack was the bus driver. They didn't have a prayer the moment they got on that bus."</blockquote>




No they had no hope at all :(

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
10th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lilia's Mommy:</b>" Such bullshit. No one deserves to be raped. And who's to determine who's "respectable?" Those that have ... [snip!] ... thoughts as you are respectable and those that differ do not? Thats a dangerous game to play. Rape is rape and rape is wrong."</blockquote>



Yes I find this very disturbing to push the idea that a respectable woman would not be raped therefor if you are raped you must have been some sort of slut anyway so deserved. I mean WTF? What a very disturbing idea to promote.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" someone posted a link i can try to find it.. hold on."


not sure if this was the same link, but i googled and found a few differnet things showing it "could" be as high as 40% Not the first time i heard it on BG but I may be wrong.




ETA:itd help if i posted the link
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,194032,00.html

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
10th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *A&N's Mama*:</b>" She didn't survive. How dare they place the blame on her OR her friend!! Fucking sick, I hope they're hanged for it"</blockquote>




I don't even know if they have the death penalty in India but I hope so for these sickos!

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
10th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting K.Lynn09:</b>" I read an article about the one in India online and I am shocked to learn about the one here in Ohio ... [snip!] ... on a limb here and say he isn't Superman or even Batman. "It is her fault she was raped" is the WORST excuse I have ever heard."</blockquote>



You should look up the one in Steubenville Ohio. That is a massive town cover up involving Police, Coaches, Attorney, everyone. It's disgusting and had been swept under the carpet until last month when hacktivist group Anonymous got involved. There was also recently a case were an 11 year old girl was being regularly gang raped by 18 men and video taped and the lawyer put the blame on the girl and people in the town interviewed made comments suggesting that she dressed older than her years and looked like a slut anyway. That was somewhere in America, I'll try find a link.

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting K.Lynn09:</b>" I read an article about the one in India online ... [snip!] ... that she dressed older than her years and looked like a slut anyway. That was somewhere in America, I'll try find a link."


O.o



KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
10th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting pitbullprincess:</b>" I can say personally I have sadly gone thru a few sexual assaults and my son is the result of such an ... [snip!] ... posted by op should have been shrugged off like that it was wrong and the death of a girl is never something she asked for...."</blockquote>




You shouldn't think like that, it doesn't matter if you where somewhere you shouldn't have been or so called not helping matters or what you were doing it is not your fault and no matter what no one deserves to be raped or sexually assaulted.

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting K.Lynn09:</b>" I read an article about the one in India online ... [snip!] ... that she dressed older than her years and looked like a slut anyway. That was somewhere in America, I'll try find a link."


OH okay I have heard about the Stubenville one. Yeah that pissed em off and reminded me why I don't trust cops any more than i trust a stranger on the street.



And what the heck about that other one! How is it and 11 YEAR OLD'S fault she was raped. I mean I know kids are 'growing up faster' these days but how the heck is an 11 year old at fault for her own repeated gang rape? She probably hasn't even started puberty yet. That is just insane!

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
10th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" not sure if this was the same link, but i googled and found a few differnet things showing it "could" ... [snip!] ... i heard it on BG but I may be wrong. ETA:itd help if i posted the link http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,194032,00.html"</blockquote>




Did you actually read that article? :shock: It has actually included cases were DNA is "inconclusive", cases were the wrong man was arrested, etc, etc, etc in order to bump the "statistic" right up. It is written in such a misleading way with the intention of the reader percieivng it to mean that 40% are falsely accussed. It is in fact only pointed out loosely that none of what has been written means that a rape hasn't taken place just essentially that they couldn't prove if or couldn't find the right man. It actually completely disgusts me the way that has been written!!!!

user banned 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" not sure if this was the same link, but ... [snip!] ... they couldn't prove if or couldn't find the right man. It actually completely disgusts me the way that has been written!!!!"


yes i read it... i understood it, and it made sense to me, its not saying IT IS 40% but if its "inconclusive" some would be probably be "matched" and some may not. thats why it really says more like 25%



"If the foregoing results can be extrapolated, then the rate of false reports is roughly between 20 (if DNA excludes an accused) to 40 percent (if inconclusive DNA is added). The relatively low estimate of 25 to 26 percent is probably accurate, especially since it is supported by other sources"



i deff think its way more than 2%. i can name like 5 girls right now that i know falsely accused rape.. i wish it wasnt like that, obviously.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" not sure if this was the same link, but i googled and found a few differnet things showing it "could" ... [snip!] ... i heard it on BG but I may be wrong. ETA:itd help if i posted the link http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,194032,00.html"

That link says it is more likely around 25% and that the 25% does not mean false reporting or false accusation, but incorrect identification of the perpetrator.



quote: First, the category of 'false accusations' does not distinguish between accusers who lie and those who are honestly mistaken. Nor does it indicate that a rape did not occur, merely that the specific accused is innocent.



Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,194032,00.html#ixzz2HamBiJhb

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting K.Lynn09:" OH okay I have heard about the Stubenville one. Yeah that pissed em off and reminded me why I don't ... [snip!] ... is an 11 year old at fault for her own repeated gang rape? She probably hasn't even started puberty yet. That is just insane! "


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1365112/Horrific-gang-rape-18-men-girl-11-Texas-sparks-racial-tension.html