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Is it rape? *D&D* Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
10th Jan '13

This is totally hypothetical, did not happen to me.



If you're having sex with a guy, and it was discussed beforehand that he would pull out and not orgasm inside of you, but he does it anyway



Is that rape?



Not like he accidently did it or anything, he just ignored what you wanted to came in you.



ETA: would you call it sexual assualt?

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
10th Jan '13

Ooh Kelly damn you, now the wheels are turning.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
10th Jan '13

No it's not.

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59728 posts
10th Jan '13

IMO, no, as shitty as it is.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22791 posts
status 10th Jan '13

If she consented for sex no it's not rape.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 8828 posts
status 10th Jan '13

Its seriously fucked up.... Idk about rape.

Faye's Mama 1 child; Springfield, MO, United States 4569 posts
10th Jan '13

No. Sex was consented. The guy is just an ass.

tooodles 240 kids; Thailand 5075 posts
10th Jan '13

No, not at all. She consented to the sex. Had she said no she didn't want.to have sex and then he did anyway then that is rape.

::Nikki:: 1 child; Arkansas 2624 posts
10th Jan '13

It's unfortunate, but not rape. That's what condoms are for IMO.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" Ooh Kelly damn you, now the wheels are turning."


I know right?

I'm going to amend the OP in a second

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20260 posts
10th Jan '13

No. You are consenting to sex with him. I don't *think* rape is defined as whether he wants to be a jackass and ejaculate inside of you after you told him not to.

House of Estrogen Washington, District of Columbia 625 posts
10th Jan '13

Oooh, toughie.



I want to say no because she did consent to sexual intercourse with him. Should a woman who conveniently forgets to take birth control or lies about it to her sex partner be considered a rapist? That's where I'm drawing my "no" from. If it wouldn't be the same for her, then it wouldn't be the same for him.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
10th Jan '13

No, it's not rape because you have consented to the sexual physical contact and his juices include with that consent even if you don't want them too.
Pre c*m and other fluids come out without knowledge and probing he did it on purpose is impossible.

Commander Shepard 18 kids; Jacksonville, Florida 6447 posts
10th Jan '13

No. Not rape. But it still sucks.

pitbullprincess Due June 24 (girl); 65 kids; Fayetteville, North Carolina 1295 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" This is totally hypothetical, did not happen to me. If you're having sex with a guy, and it was discussed ... [snip!] ... does it anyway Is that rape? Not like he accidently did it or anything, he just ignored what you wanted to came in you."


I know that if he has an std and is aware of it that it can actually be some degree of preplanned murder...I know that is not the correct wording but it happens to soldiers alot down here....I dont know for sure tho about that but I am sure there is some way out there it could be illegal ....as for personal opinion no I wouldnt consider it rape unless halfway in the act the girl said no and he held her down then its date rape....there are alot of specifics to it and rarely in that kind of situation would anyone be convicted....if the girl got pregnant she could say he raped her even with proof of the plan before hand technically it would be a lie in a sense but idk thats actually something to think about....