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Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
10th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Haha. Sexual contracts for all. It would solve so many problems... haha"</blockquote>




Don't ya think?
I've been thinking about that for a while now. I made my BF in highschool sign a contract saying what he could and couldn't tell his friends about our sex life :p.
It had four signatures on it, mine, his, my best friend and his best friend ;).
Worked out well when we broke up.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20487 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting Mary.:" What if you consent to half sex, like just a tip... but he still inserts all the way. Is that rape?"


who consents to half sex? i mean, really?!?! lol

House of Estrogen Washington, District of Columbia 625 posts
10th Jan '13

Is it rape if you have surprise butt sex?

::Nikki:: 1 child; Arkansas 2624 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" who consents to half sex? i mean, really?!?! lol"


:!:

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20487 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting House of Estrogen:" Is it rape if you have surprise butt sex?"

Sodomy, I suppose.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting Mary.:" What if you consent to half sex, like just a tip... but he still inserts all the way. Is that rape?"


I can see your point, but I say yes to your specific question.



The reason I see them differently is that rape is sex without consent. It has nothing to do with where the man ejaculates. If a man ejaculates on your leg ( a stranger) it isn't rape. It could be sexual assault, but not rape. Rape is sex without consent. Thus, where he ejaculates doesn't change that, and doesn't make something rape. Putting in the whole thing when it was agreed to only do the tip IS unwanted sex, so it would make it rape.

House of Estrogen Washington, District of Columbia 625 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" Sodomy, I suppose."


You didn't technically consent to anal, just vaginal. Some once stuck their finger in my butt without my consent and I felt to violated.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20487 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting House of Estrogen:" You didn't technically consent to anal, just vaginal. Some once stuck their finger in my butt without my consent and I felt to violated."

Really?

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
10th Jan '13

Thanks for all the replies ladies

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22869 posts
status 10th Jan '13

Is it rape if you orgasm from your sexual assault?



I mean you could have enjoyed it.




*Disclaimer* I do not believe this statement. I believe any sexual acts that you do not consent to is rape. But just curious since everyone is bringing up situations

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" Really? "


Really. Just because you consent to something does not give someone a free for all to your body.



If I agree to oral that doesn't give them the right to have sex with me. Just like, just because I agree to have vaginal sex with someone, that doesn't mean they get sudden rights to anal. If you aren't "ready" for something, and someone does it without consent, you can feel really violated and I'd say that's normal.



I mean, if you gave someone a kiss goodnight at the end of the date and they shoved their hand in your pants, wouldn't you feel violated? Just because you consented to a kiss doesn't give them anything you didn't consent to.

pitbullprincess Due June 24 (girl); 65 kids; Fayetteville, North Carolina 1295 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting House of Estrogen:" Oooh, toughie. I want to say no because she did consent to sexual intercourse with him. Should a woman ... [snip!] ... a rapist? That's where I'm drawing my "no" from. If it wouldn't be the same for her, then it wouldn't be the same for him."


When women try to trap guys on purpose like that I kind of wish it could be called female rape of some kind....accident is one thing it happens sadly but guys get all the blame for rape and yea occasionally they can be raped by women but its not as common as what you see for women but I really think your raping that guys life by trapping him like that I wish there was some way to get girls back with that oh and faking pregnancies there needs to be some thing to make it illegal the amount of young pregnancies would really drop

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" Is it rape if you orgasm from your sexual assault? I mean you could have enjoyed it. *Disclaimer* ... [snip!] ... I believe any sexual acts that you do not consent to is rape. But just curious since everyone is bringing up situations"


Yes, it's still rape. I HATE when people try to use that.



AN orgasm is a physical reaction, not consent. That's like men who think because a woman gets wet that means she's consenting.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17 (twins); 1 child; Kentucky 20487 posts
10th Jan '13
Quoting she nan igans:" Really. Just because you consent to something does not give someone a free for all to your body. If ... [snip!] ... your pants, wouldn't you feel violated? Just because you consented to a kiss doesn't give them anything you didn't consent to."

I see your point. However, to her specific example of having sex and someone sticking their finger in my butt, I would not feel violated. A little annoyed, yes, but not assaulted.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22869 posts
status 10th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" Yes, it's still rape. I HATE when people try to use that. AN orgasm is a physical reaction, not consent. That's like men who think because a woman gets wet that means she's consenting. "</blockquote>




I agree. I completely agree.