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I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" I uh....kind of have a weird thing for amputees already :oops: I'd be more attracted."


can i ask what it is that attracts you to them?

Caimma 1 child; New Zealand 1129 posts
11th Jan '13

I dated a guy (yes a guy lol) who had the left side of his body pretty much frozen since he was 5. It never grew. That never came into the picture for me. We just had to adapt some things. The fact that it turned out he was 28 and I was 16 was disgusting a wrong and if he hadnt of lied about his age and cried when he got a flat tyre.

j.a.c 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Virginia 2165 posts
11th Jan '13

I love my husband for who he is. I would never leave him for anything like that. I hope no one could be that low.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" can i ask what it is that attracts you to them?"</blockquote>




No clue really. It's like asking why I find blue eyes sexier than brown :lol:



Maybe it's because they've overcome a hardship? Maybe some subconscious attraction to them being strong enough to survive something? Idk.

RadioactiveCat 2 kids; Roanoke, VA, United States 22958 posts
11th Jan '13

Depends on the person's outlook. If they let it get them down and let themselves go I can't see beginning anything with them.

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" and be honest. if your husband/so lost a limb, would you feel the same about them? how about if ... [snip!] ... if they were born that way or became that way. would it matter if it was a arm vs leg/ foot vs hand? explain your answers. "


I've known people without limbs... for me... it would depend completely on their attitude. If they hated the world over it..NO, I couldn't deal with that. But... I can't deal with bad attitudes well anyway.

Van West Auckland, NZ, New Zealand 3181 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Ole' No Name:" I don't think I wouldn't be attracted to him but I would probably be weary of hurting his feelings maybe? ... [snip!] ... him or think any less of him. And as far as meeting someone, no it wouldn't phase if i was to create a relationship with them."


:!: All of this.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" can i ask what it is that ... [snip!] ... because they've overcome a hardship? Maybe some subconscious attraction to them being strong enough to survive something? Idk."


definatly can understand that part, i find that attractive too

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey d**k Mountain, WA, United States 59994 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting snglemama:" I've known people without limbs... for me... it would depend completely on their attitude. If they hated ... [snip!] ... attitude. If they hated the world over it..NO, I couldn't deal with that. But... I can't deal with bad attitudes well anyway."


That is a very good point.

Mommy&Stinkbug 1 child; Fredericksburg, Virginia 6049 posts
11th Jan '13

if my fiance lost a limb id still love him
but tbh i could never see my self falling in love with someone already missing a limb
i think its sort of gross..
and i know how bitchy that sounds =/

Chibs 2 kids; Missouri 12147 posts
11th Jan '13

For those who said no you wouldn't start a relationship with an amputee
What's your reasoning?

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting *PeanutButter*:" For those who said no you wouldn't start a relationship with an amputee What's your reasoning?"

I just wouldn't want to. If it happened to them after we had started a relationship, it'd be different but because I haven't overcome that issue with them, I'd rather just not deal with it at all.

Bosco123 1 child; Oklahoma City, OK, United States 1531 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" can i ask what it is that ... [snip!] ... because they've overcome a hardship? Maybe some subconscious attraction to them being strong enough to survive something? Idk."


A girl from my highschool apparently was a CNA (just out of school) and would have sex with some of the amputee's she would take care of! Also, cheated on her husband with them :(

BeginTheRomance Due July 21 (girl); 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting *PeanutButter*:" For those who said no you wouldn't start a relationship with an amputee What's your reasoning?"


:!:



Wondering the same thing. Why is it "gross" that they had something happen to them that they couldn't control?

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting BeginTheRomance:" :!: Wondering the same thing. Why is it "gross" that they had something happen to them that they couldn't control?"

I never said it was gross. :?