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Amelia [a Mom] 1 child; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 15002 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting BeginTheRomance:" You shouldn't feel bad. You're beautiful and have a husband who loves you. You're luckier than most. :D"

:!:

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *PeanutButter*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Saffy ... [snip!] ... it upset you. There's plenty of guys who'd date you solely because they have an amputee fetish, which IMO is more insulting."


yes i think that would be more insulting as well.

HungryHippo 2 kids; Missouri 12139 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *PeanutButter*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Saffy ... [snip!] ... it upset you. There's plenty of guys who'd date you solely because they have an amputee fetish, which IMO is more insulting."</blockquote>



I know that
It used to bother me.im married now and dgaf unless you are intentionally insulting me just to be a dick about it
But if someone told you they won't date you because you're fat it would hurt your feelings right?

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *PeanutButter*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... me just to be a dick about it But if someone told you they won't date you because you're fat it would hurt your feelings right?"</blockquote>



Men have told me that, and rudely. Yes, it stung...for about two seconds. And then I remember I'm perfectly happy with my body and plenty of other men have worshipped me for my curves and my personality, so whatever any a*****e thinks is irrelevant. I don't carry the hurt feelings with me.

BeginTheRomance Due July 21 (girl); 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *PeanutButter*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, ... [snip!] ... me for my curves and my personality, so whatever any a*****e thinks is irrelevant. I don't carry the hurt feelings with me."


I'm not staying on topic, but I'm just going to point out that you don't look fat in the slightest. That is all. :D

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *PeanutButter*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Saffy ... [snip!] ... it upset you. There's plenty of guys who'd date you solely because they have an amputee fetish, which IMO is more insulting."


huh? it's VERY different. I won't date someone overweight.... becuase it says something about their lifestyle, their discipline, how important their health is to them.



an amputee... is just them. It's nothing they can help.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BeginTheRomance:</b>" I'm not staying on topic, but I'm just going to point out that you don't look fat in the slightest. That is all. :D"</blockquote>



Thank you :D but i've lost over 60* lbs in the last two years,I used to be much bigger :lol:
*typo

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" huh? it's VERY different. I won't date someone overweight.... becuase it says something about their ... [snip!] ... lifestyle, their discipline, how important their health is to them. an amputee... is just them. It's nothing they can help."</blockquote>



Uh...I was extremely overweight due to a combination of a hormone
imbalance and a bad reaction to birth control :? I had to diet and run my ass off daily to MAINTAIN a weight of 215 at my largest.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" huh? it's VERY different. I won't date someone ... [snip!] ... and a bad reaction to birth control :? I had to diet and run my ass off daily to MAINTAIN a weight of 215 at my largest."


some people dont realize there are medical reasons as well......



user banned California 36390 posts
11th Jan '13

It would depend on the limb and why it was missing I guess. If my husband lost a limb now, it would definitely suck but I would probably stay. And with his current job, the risk of losing a hand/arm isn't that farfetched.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" It would depend on the limb and why it was missing I guess. If my husband lost a limb now, it would definitely ... [snip!] ... would definitely suck but I would probably stay. And with his current job, the risk of losing a hand/arm isn't that farfetched."


which would you prefer, a arm or a leg? or would a hand vs foot be better..


say, for example, this person is missing a hand due to a GSW

user banned California 36390 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" which would you prefer, a arm or a leg? or would a hand vs foot be better.. say, for example, this person is missing a hand due to a GSW"</blockquote>



I think I'd prefer a hand/arm just because I think it would be an easier adjustment for him

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" which would you prefer, a ... [snip!] ... due to a GSW"</blockquote> I think I'd prefer a hand/arm just because I think it would be an easier adjustment for him"


i personally think missing a foot/leg would be easier, you dont need/require as much dexterity with your foot/leg than you use your hand for.

user banned California 36390 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" i personally think missing a foot/leg would be easier, you dont need/require as much dexterity with your foot/leg than you use your hand for."</blockquote>




Yes but my husband is a large man and has hip problems from when he was a baby. Trying to use crutches or a prosthetic leg would be extremely difficult.