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What do you consider ttc? Kason's Mommy♥ 1 child; Pennsylvania 1587 posts
11th Jan '13

What do you ladies consider ttc? Like tracking, bding every other night all month long all that stuff, or just not using protection? DH and I have been trying to get pregnant since march, but there are some months we only get to bd like once or twice because he works nights and was picking up so much over time, so I don't know if I should be worried yet or not.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 16814 posts
11th Jan '13

I consider it not using protection and wanting a baby. lol.

He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59305 posts
11th Jan '13

Not using protection, trying for a child, no matter how much you keep track.

Mama Kat ♥ 2 kids; NAPLES, ME, United States 9555 posts
11th Jan '13

I honestly don't get the whole'not trying but not preventing thing'

Cat Abbott 2 kids; British Columbia 1389 posts
11th Jan '13

Read Taking Charge of Your Fertility before you get worried. Super informative. Good luck with everything!

★Date311161.69 Due August 31 (boy); TTC since Sep 2012; 1 child; Pennsylvania 4003 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" I consider it not using protection and wanting a baby. lol. "


:!:



Yup. lol



I am currently TTC, and that means DH is ejaculating in me and we're hoping for another baby. Simple understanding.

He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59305 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" I honestly don't get the whole'not trying but not preventing thing'"


IMO, it means you aren't obsessing or keeping track of your cycles or trying to BD near your ovulation... but just having sex when you feel like it and if a baby happens, fine.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 16814 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" I honestly don't get the whole'not trying but not preventing thing'"


I believe that is when you don't care either way. You would like another child, but you won't get upset either way...whatever happens, happens. No protection.

Mama Kat ♥ 2 kids; NAPLES, ME, United States 9555 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting The Doctor:" IMO, it means you aren't obsessing or keeping track of your cycles or trying to BD near your ovulation... but just having sex when you feel like it and if a baby happens, fine."


so you still technically want a baby and are ttc , you just arn't into the charting,temping, and all that?

S U Z I E 3 kids; Venezuela 18556 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Caressa♥ [TTC #2]:" What do you ladies consider ttc? Like tracking, bding every other night all month long all that stuff, ... [snip!] ... once or twice because he works nights and was picking up so much over time, so I don't know if I should be worried yet or not."


IMO, you are TTC if you aren't trying to prevent pregnancy...

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 16814 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" but you still technically want a baby and are ttc , you just arn't into the charting,temping, and all that. "


Not really.



You could have another LO, but you don't necessarily want it so bad you are peeing on sticks and obsessing about have one.



It's just, whatever happens is all good.

LittleTiger 2 kids; Florida 10560 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JessieLeeAnne:</b>" I consider it not using protection and wanting a baby. lol. "</blockquote>



! This. Personally, we liked the less stressful method of not trying but not protecting. We didnt chart or test for ovulation. I kept track of my menses on am app and we BDed when we felt like it. I took prenatals the second month of ttc and ended up pregnant at the end of that month. :)

He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59305 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Katrina,Phia&Easton's Ma:" so you still technically want a baby and are ttc , you just arn't into the charting,temping, and all that?"


Eh. I think TTC is trying to have sex near (when you think you're going to) ovulate, NTNP is more just wingin' it whenever you feel like having sex.

FutureMommyof2 Due June 5; 1 child; Charlotte, North Carolina 1035 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Date311161.69:</b>" :!: Yup. lol I am currently TTC, and that means DH is ejaculating in me and we're hoping for another baby. Simple understanding."</blockquote>




Exactly!

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8736 posts
11th Jan '13

Not preventing definitely helps your chances of getting knocked up, but I think TTC means you actually WANT a baby. SO and I never prevented because two doctors told me I couldn't have babies - in retrospect, I guess I was naive enough to believe them, but I didn't have anyone to tell me otherwise so medical advice seemed sound. I sooooo did not want a baby though, ever. I was horribly upset when I found out - we both were.