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Cassie♥ 4 kids; Wahiawa, Hawaii 5353 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Heeeeeey, Sexy lady. ;):" I'm sorry about your marriage. I do agree with this to an extent but I don't feel like she should make ... [snip!] ... not like he can have sexual relationships with another woman through the screen. However, you may be right and I'm wrong. "



Yeah I get that, but in her mind its possible that he is having a sexual relationship... Maybe not physcially. Idk that is what was always so frustrating about my marraige, everyone thought I was crazy because I was upset about him watching porn... But in my mind he was having a sexual relationship with those girls, not physically but deff emotionally. He was more invested in porn than he was in our sex life.... and in the OP she did say that she started letting him watch it cause he was doing it behind her back anyway... bottom line she can't make him do anything, but she can request that he stop doing something that makes her unhappy.



and thanks... Its a shame, I really didn't wanna be another statistic and just another failed marriage... I fought with everything I had and sometimes you just can't go on.. It takes two to fail a marriage.... Live and learn right? :)

RoseMaryy 1 child; California 139 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Cassie♥:" Well technically she isn't doing nothing that actually harms him. By watching porn he is emotionally ... [snip!] ... and anything to please the other person and people are so dang selfish these days which is why divorce rate is out the roof."


(':!:');

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
11th Jan '13

Porn is awesome. I watch it when I get bored and the kids are gone or sleeping.

michaela&michael+baby :) 1 child; Pomeroy, Ohio 221 posts
11th Jan '13

you took the words right out of my mouth i was going thru this about a month ago then he finally stopped. for now lol



Quoting RoseMaryy:" My husband likes to watch porn and I feel disgusted by it, he always hid it from me and and on three ... [snip!] ... me feel unwanted and not sexy like not enough. When I look at him I even feel grossed out. Does any one else relate to this?"
★ASHLEY★ 17 kids; Michigan 1274 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting RoseMaryy:</b>" My husband likes to watch porn and I feel disgusted by it, he always hid it from me and and on three ... [snip!] ... me feel unwanted and not sexy like not enough. When I look at him I even feel grossed out. Does any one else relate to this?"</blockquote>




I feel the same exact way. I hate watching porn. I admit that when I was single I did watch it but when I'm in a relationship it's so not acceptable. I hate the fact he watches other women have sex, that's what I'm here for.

Zariah♥ 1 child; Bolingbrook, Illinois 758 posts
11th Jan '13

Me and SO both watch is occasionally so I can't directly relate. But everybody has their own preferences. Did you tell DH why you don't like him watching it? Maybe if you explained how it made you feel, etc. he would understand and stop on his own. Hope it works out :)

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
11th Jan '13

If he's watching it on his own, porn has nothing to do with you. I think that's why I have such an issue with the "He doesn't need porn because he has me." He knows he has you but you and porn are completely separate and different things to him.