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melindapple 1 child; Michigan 5425 posts
11th Jan '13

Take the help from your parents now until you get up on your feet. That way you have a better leg to stand on when you get older. If you don't take the help, it's going to be ten times harder to accomplish anything. Good luck to you.

TwinsMomma13 Due January 20 (twins); Kansas City, Missouri 4 posts
11th Jan '13

So what I am calm about it, what's the point of being stressed and loosing your mind. I have a good paying job so I will be able to support my children after I am able to go back to work. My older sister had her baby when she was 17 and I watched her and she is 20 now and has been raising her baby on her own since he was 6 months old. My parents have 4 kids other than me I didn't want to have them have to pay for another child when I know I will be able to do it o my own once I am able to get back to work. I'm sorry I'm not like one f these girls on MTV who flip out because they are regnant. I am more mature than that. When I got pregnant I made myself grow up and be more like an adult, I am going to have a kid I can't act like one. I was raised better than that.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Boob Juice Factory. [EBFB:</b>" "</blockquote>




I call dumbass.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 69285 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting TwinsMomma13:" So what I am calm about it, what's the point of being stressed and loosing your mind. I have a good paying ... [snip!] ... I made myself grow up and be more like an adult, I am going to have a kid I can't act like one. I was raised better than that. "


Good for you!!!

Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting TwinsMomma13:" So what I am calm about it, what's the point of being stressed and loosing your mind. I have a good paying ... [snip!] ... I made myself grow up and be more like an adult, I am going to have a kid I can't act like one. I was raised better than that. "


Good for you! It's all about your attitude. :)

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 69285 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Boob Juice Factory. [EBFB:</b>" "</blockquote> I call dumbass."


Seriously. Idk what the fuck the point of that shit was. For no fucking reason :roll:

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting TwinsMomma13:" So what I am calm about it, what's the point of being stressed and loosing your mind. I have a good paying ... [snip!] ... I made myself grow up and be more like an adult, I am going to have a kid I can't act like one. I was raised better than that. "


Can they help you watch the baby while you work and you can actually pay them for it?

teenexpecting Due September 6; Leicester, United Kingdom 14 posts
11th Jan '13

I know what you feel because my mum practically wants to adopt it. *sigh*

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10582 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting TwinsMomma13:" So what I am calm about it, what's the point of being stressed and loosing your mind. I have a good paying ... [snip!] ... I made myself grow up and be more like an adult, I am going to have a kid I can't act like one. I was raised better than that. "

That is good that you are thinking like that. And it's awesome that you can support your babies, but it still doesn't hurt to accept help when it's offered. (they are helping you with more than just spending money on the babies or however you put it, letting you live in their house...) Some parents wouldn't even do that... Best of luck to you, and ignore the idiots here talking crap to you. They can't believe someone so young wouldn't be all freaking out about it and immature...

AmandaSixx + JZS Due November 22 (boy); 2 kids; Gresham, Oregon 26576 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Boob Juice Factory. [EBFB:</b>" "</blockquote> I call dumbass."


:!: i second that

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TwinsMomma13:</b>" So what I am calm about it, what's the point of being stressed and loosing your mind. I have a good paying ... [snip!] ... I made myself grow up and be more like an adult, I am going to have a kid I can't act like one. I was raised better than that. "</blockquote>




Good for you. Just make sure your parents know how grateful you are. They'd much rather give you a warm, loving environment to live in than watch you and their grandchild struggle more than necessary. Good luck, OP. You're gonna do just fine.

Eva Marie's Mama 1 child; Albany, New York 728 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:</b>" You'd be amazed lol. Ny is one of the few states that require employers to pay for and supply their employees with short term disability. Most states if you want it, you pay for it. :shock:."</blockquote>




Oh really? I didn't know, I thought most states did.

E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Can they help you watch the baby while you work and you can actually pay them for it?"


:!:

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting TwinsMomma13:" So what I am calm about it, what's the point of being stressed and loosing your mind. I have a good paying ... [snip!] ... I made myself grow up and be more like an adult, I am going to have a kid I can't act like one. I was raised better than that. "


That's an excellent attitude, and exactly the attitude you are going to need. Stay in school, and accept your parents' help. You're going to need all the help you can get- raising children isn't easy at any age, especially when you still have school and are supporting them yourself.
Let your parents know how appreciative you are of them, and help out where and when you can. They'll appreciate it, and it will show them that you are mature enough to be on your own.

MommyToWesley 1 child; Delaware 3847 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting teenexpecting:" I know what you feel because my mum practically wants to adopt it. *sigh*"


You're 13; it's a little different. You have YEARS of high school left, and you mature SO much between 13 and 16. :?