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Ryleigh's Mama ♥ 17 kids; West Virginia 10703 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Bogey Woman:" OMG I know...and for me, one of the most irritating things is when he acts like that with me or is nasty ... [snip!] ... I seriously want to cold c**k him one in the face some days. He's also very unsympathetic to the whole pregnancy thing."


We JUST had this conversation last night.. about the being rude & disrespectful & making me clean after him all day then trying to come on to me for sex. Uh, no thanks. My sex drive is non-existent these days & I'm pretty sure that's why. Love him to death, don't get me wrong, but nobody feels like having sex after they've spent all day picking up clothes off the living room floor, washing them, folding them, putting them away, cleaning the mud he tracks through the house, picking up all the spit bottles & snuff cans, cleaning his dishes, washing the toothpaste out of the sink, putting the toothpaste lid on, washing the mirror he got toothpaste on, cleaning the toilet that he obviously can't aim right on.. lol the list goes on & on. All the while I'm also breastfeeding & trying to keep an eye on DD since she is a crazy hyper busy body who gets into EVERYTHING.

Bogey Woman 2 kids; Fort Irwin, California 1892 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Ryleigh's Mommy ♥:" We JUST had this conversation last night.. about the being rude & disrespectful & making me ... [snip!] ... while I'm also breastfeeding & trying to keep an eye on DD since she is a crazy hyper busy body who gets into EVERYTHING. "


Hmm...I wonder if we married the same man...I'll have to ask my husband if he has another life that I don't know about lol



But seriously, it drives me insane and no matter how many times I have the conversation with him, I still get the, "I work all day," excuse. Forgive me for being unsympathetic when I know that his "work" consists of him sitting in the lobby and playing Call of Duty all day...

Ryleigh's Mama ♥ 17 kids; West Virginia 10703 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Bogey Woman:" Hmm...I wonder if we married the same man...I'll have to ask my husband if he has another life that ... [snip!] ... me for being unsympathetic when I know that his "work" consists of him sitting in the lobby and playing Call of Duty all day..."


It really does make you wonder ;) lol. I hate that excuse as well. So much. SO works night shift which I'm sure IS hard but he has one of the easiest positions in his field of work. It's not like we are even asking them to do much.. just pick up after themselves mainly. It drives me up the wall that the first thing he does when he wakes up is immediately turns on the X-box.