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If you were comfortable with your figure A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
11th Jan '13

Would you wear something like this?



http://www.ardenb.com/catalog/product.jsp?categoryId=136&subCategoryId=583&productId=62549#OpenPopup



I am not comfortable with my body at all, and am currently on a diet.



"SO" sent me this as something he'd like me to wear on valentines day... Not sure how I feel about it.

Momma Rawks 1 child; Iowa 7176 posts
11th Jan '13

No, because I am lacking boobs, so I feel like I'd look weird in something like that. But if it weren't for that mesh part, sure.

Klaus 2 kids; Mississippi 24188 posts
11th Jan '13

I understand. DH doesn't understand that I'm not totally comfortable with my body. I general agreement is that I will wear anything he wants in the bedroom, but I have limits on things I wear in public. If I don't feel comfortable in it, then I don't leave the house in it.



I think it's a cute dress, but that cut is hard to pull off. I would try it on, but I probably wouldn't wear it.

Amanda.M 2 kids; St Albans, Vermont 890 posts
11th Jan '13

I'd wear it. It is not all that bad.

user banned Due January 20; 33 kids; North Carolina 14662 posts
11th Jan '13

I am comfortable with my body, and I would not wear that. I don't like it

Vanilla MILFshake. 1 child; Georgia 5469 posts
11th Jan '13

Nope, not my style at all.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
11th Jan '13

Something like that I would have to try on before ordering.
I am comfortable with my weight but not necessarily my shape. When I'm not pregnant I have no hips and no boobs so that dress would look stupid on me I think.

Isn't it weird that he's looking up dresses for you? lol

Sour Daisy 1 child; Kennewick, Washington 7208 posts
11th Jan '13

I wouldn't. That hip part really only looks good on certain body types, and mine is not it. haha

katxo 18 kids; Florida 7270 posts
11th Jan '13
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Something like that I would have to try on before ordering. I am comfortable with my weight but not ... [snip!] ... no hips and no boobs so that dress would look stupid on me I think. Isn't it weird that he's looking up dresses for you? lol"

I agree with this 100%. I can't even get my husband to look at something I am in to give me an honest opinion if he likes it or not.. I use to always wear ripped jeans when I first met DH, only to find out later he didn't really care for them. crazy DH

Kaibutsu 1 child; Virginia 3525 posts
11th Jan '13

I'm not comfortable with my body but if I was, I wouldn't wear that anyways just because it's not my style. I won't wear anything revealing or nice until I can lose some weight. Only thing I wear right now is lose t-shirts and stretchy pants or jeans.

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
11th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Will☮Creedence:</b>" Something like that I would have to try on before ordering. I am comfortable with my weight but not ... [snip!] ... no hips and no boobs so that dress would look stupid on me I think. Isn't it weird that he's looking up dresses for you? lol"</blockquote>



Yes. Lol apparently he saw it in the window in the mall and "had" to find it for me.



That peplum style most likely won't flatter a sagging kangaroo pouch of a belly like I have haha

LiLMuChAcHa22 1 child; California 3839 posts
12th Jan '13
Quoting A&J. ♥:" Would you wear something like this? http://www.ardenb.com/catalog/product.jsp?categoryId=136&subCa ... [snip!] ... am currently on a diet. "SO" sent me this as something he'd like me to wear on valentines day... Not sure how I feel about it."


My SO would not want me to wear that he would actually get mad.. but ya if I was still skinny I would not wear it either. It looks a lil slutty to me

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
12th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A&J. ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Will☮Creedence:</b>" Something like that I would have ... [snip!] ... and "had" to find it for me. That peplum style most likely won't flatter a sagging kangaroo pouch of a belly like I have haha"</blockquote>




I think that's one of those dresses only someone like Kim Kardashian would look good in lol

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
12th Jan '13

I wouldn't wear it because the frill part at the bottom would make my hips look bigger than they are, I think.



But without that, yes I would wear it.

RubyFox 1 child; Florida 5098 posts
12th Jan '13

didn't you watch the "Tiffany" episode of What Not to Wear last week? Peplums are great for hiding a "pouch" :lol:
That dress is really pretty, I would love to wear it...and I think it shows how you look in your SO's eyes, he thinks you are sexy, even if you don't feel the same about your body. I would wear it for him..or maybe something else he picked out that I was more comfortable with...or have him get you a sexy negligee instead?