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we broke up =( brianna & lil bubba! Due August 17 (boy); 17 kids; Berlin, New Hampshire 1976 posts
12th Jan '13

soo the guy ive been with for about 10 months and have completely fallen in love with decided he wants his kids mother back. i just moved in with him in november and things have been great..then we found out i was pregnant and he wants nothing to do with me or the baby and lost all feelings for me. he keeps begging me to get an abortion but i cant. so im moving out and doing this on my own..yet again. =( im so broken but trying to stay strong for my son. ughh whys this so hard? i saw myself marrying him and having a family with him.

Maria + Cory = Alexis 17 kids; Middleport, Ohio 1075 posts
12th Jan '13

Sorry to hear that. SO ex-wife is trying to get him back. Saying they have two kids together and that is where he belongs. He told her no he wanted me and our baby.

sian marie Due May 27 (girl); 4 kids; Bridgend, United Kingdom 129 posts
12th Jan '13

hold in there chick,mine did the same thing left me at 3 months but im now 5 months and very happy even got a nice man on the scene who likes me for me and dont mind the baby siduation wich i really did not think possible things do work out in the end xx

brianna & lil bubba! Due August 17 (boy); 17 kids; Berlin, New Hampshire 1976 posts
12th Jan '13

i have to move out in 2 days and the closer it gets the more emotional im becoming.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
12th Jan '13

Oh sweetie I'm so sorry :( that's not fair to you. Is he not remembering the reasons they broke up in the first place?!?! Is he not remembering the reasons he got with you :( that so hard. *hugs*

ivalilly 1 child; Kansas 603 posts
12th Jan '13

I'm sorry, hun! :( Sounds like he really doesn't know what he wants in life. Just try to stay strong for you and your babies! You can talk to me if you ever need someone to talk to! Chin up, sweetie

Maria + Cory = Alexis 17 kids; Middleport, Ohio 1075 posts
12th Jan '13
Quoting brianna & lil bubba!:" i have to move out in 2 days and the closer it gets the more emotional im becoming."

I bet so. Being a single mom was one of my greatest fears. I really hope things work out for you. And try to cheer up, that baby can sense your unhappiness.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
12th Jan '13

Things WILL get better, I promise. You will realize that there is someone out there who will love and cherish you and treat you better than this guy. I understand it's hard but just stay strong and you will get through it and come out stronger than ever <3

brianna & lil bubba! Due August 17 (boy); 17 kids; Berlin, New Hampshire 1976 posts
12th Jan '13

the worst part is..im one of the only girl he's ever said he loved..he never loved her..he just wants her back so the custody battle will be over. (which i understand) but she hardly has anything to do with their son..ive been taking care of him. im so lost and just cant stop asking WHY he wants her if he never loved her..his family hates her..and she tricked him into getting pregnant by lying about being on birth control. and then she cheated on him, when he found out she left the baby with him and found out she was pregnant again.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
12th Jan '13
Quoting brianna & lil bubba!:" the worst part is..im one of the only girl he's ever said he loved..he never loved her..he just wants ... [snip!] ... birth control. and then she cheated on him, when he found out she left the baby with him and found out she was pregnant again."


Wow. The guy is obviously a freaking idiot and youu're wayyyy better off without him. Find someone with common sense.

sian marie Due May 27 (girl); 4 kids; Bridgend, United Kingdom 129 posts
12th Jan '13
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Wow. The guy is obviously a freaking idiot and youu're wayyyy better off without him. Find someone with common sense."


agreed x

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
12th Jan '13
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Wow. The guy is obviously a freaking idiot and youu're wayyyy better off without him. Find someone with common sense."


i agree...




and, OP, when he comes crawling back (which he certainly will considering the evidence), DON'T fall for it and take him back. you don't want to do this same thing all over again! good luck to you!

brianna & lil bubba! Due August 17 (boy); 17 kids; Berlin, New Hampshire 1976 posts
12th Jan '13

thanks everyone. and no i know better then to take him back. ive already started the process of an apartment back in my home town which is 3 hours away. he keeps asking where im going when i leave..i refuse to tell him and i refuse to give him my new number. he wants nothing to do with this baby so i want nothing to do with him.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
12th Jan '13
Quoting brianna & lil bubba!:" thanks everyone. and no i know better then to take him back. ive already started the process of an apartment ... [snip!] ... to tell him and i refuse to give him my new number. he wants nothing to do with this baby so i want nothing to do with him."


Good for you! You're already stronger than most women :)

brianna & lil bubba! Due August 17 (boy); 17 kids; Berlin, New Hampshire 1976 posts
12th Jan '13
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Good for you! You're already stronger than most women :)"

thank you! its deff hard but i know its what i need to do.