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Gavin's Mommyyy 1 child; Massachusetts 1557 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gavin's Mommyyy:</b>" what did u do that scared him?? did u ... [snip!] ... wants to be with me. Idk obviously what your SO would do, but he may need a reality check. I think they dont take us seriously."


I agree! Are you okay? why r u in the hospital??

Gavin's Mommyyy 1 child; Massachusetts 1557 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting WhY bOtHeR:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gavin's Mommyyy:</b>" I need to stop giving in and just say ... [snip!] ... Hmm sound like you mean what you say and sound confident. Dont give up just yet better yet dont be a quitter!"


I'm no quitter. i just think i deserve more then what he gives.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44071 posts
14th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gavin's Mommyyy:</b>" I agree! Are you okay? why r u in the hospital??"</blockquote>



I'm fine. I just have a preg complication that has potential to be deadly for the baby so it's standard procedure to hospitalize at 33 weeks and csection between 34-36 weeks depending on how my body stays and if baby is not in any distress.

justanothamotha Due January 20; 130 kids; Climax, Michigan 5120 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting Gavin's Mommyyy:" Its easier said then done... its been a battle for so long that i dont know if its worth it anymore... I sometimes feel like we jsut arent right for each other, but walking away is so hard for me."

Everything is easier said than done. It's a cop out to say that. I've BTDT & we are together 20 yrs now. You either put the work in to get it back on track or you walk away without giving it a real shot. The fact is, if you won't go get some actual help, then you aren't really invested in making it work. Chasing your tail while enduring bad communication, bad patterns you two have established & stressful interactions is NOT the same thing as working on the relationship. It is unnecessary pain & frustration for everyone...and that is all it is.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44071 posts
14th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gavin's Mommyyy:</b>" I'm no quitter. i just think i deserve more then what he gives."</blockquote>



I'm not a quitter either. But I just got to a point where I needed to do skmething so he knew I was serious. I was sick of the same damn convo every other month with no change. We'd been doing this 6 yrs and I'm spent. It's exhausting. I am one to work things out and do not believe in throwing my family away and all that. But idk it just felt like that's what I needed to do. And so far it's working.