--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts14th Jan '13
Quoting K.MarieAnnette:" did you guys have fights before? communication can be tricky with a man sometimes. SO and i butt heads ... [snip!] ... and get your feelings across without the other thinking of what they are going to say next before the other person is finished."
No, we didn't start fighting until I found out I'm pregnant.
First it was over parenting, we have totally opposite views and I pretty much decided to go with his ways to make him happy and so we wouldn't fight about it anymore. (I had brought it up before we got pregnant because of my DS but he told me it wasn't important to talk about)
Then he accused me of cheating which I've posted about a lot recently and went through my shit without asking trying to find evidence that didn't exist and that is what made me question our relationship and why we have been fighting.
I did feel like that about him but I don't anymore.
Kimber's Mommy 1 child; South Carolina 4272 posts14th Jan '13
Quoting Katie♥'sherHippo:" No, we didn't start fighting until I found out I'm pregnant. First it was over parenting, we have totally ... [snip!] ... is what made me question our relationship and why we have been fighting. I did feel like that about him but I don't anymore."
the parenting thing is a biggie, obviously. SO and i agree on most things, but not everything. we try really hard to work out a compromise that we can both agree on that is good for DD.
i haven't read any of your other posts, but why the hell would he think you were cheating on him all of a sudden? :(