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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA* 21 kids; Sherwood, Arkansas 17987 posts
14th Jan '13

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
14th Jan '13

I would let him see it, it is just an ultrasound. It is his kid too regardless of how he has acted.

Jane.Doe. Fukushima, Japan 2805 posts
14th Jan '13

Wouldn't bother with his ass unless he asked for the stuff honestly. My sperm donor was like that, claimed it was not his, fought me the entire time. Went to one appointment, the first ultrasound. Glanced at it and just went "ok". She is 12 now and he has still never laid eyes on her. She's better off without him.

Boobo&bugs Due September 24; 1 child; Simpsonville, South Carolina 5582 posts
14th Jan '13

No I would not. He could start making an effort and ce to appointments with me and I might show it to him. But I wouldn't make him a copy.

The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42577 posts
14th Jan '13

This kid's dad wasn't really involved while we were together, and he left me 2 months ago and hasn't looked back. I still send him every u/s pic and he could come to the appointments if he didn't want to bring along his new gf - the chick he cheated on me with.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
14th Jan '13

I'm make him a copy of it for sure. Whether or not I like him has little bearing on him being a father, and I'd want to do whatever possible to increase the odds that he would have a good relationship with his kids. If he is showing interest, it's not a big deal to give him a copy of an ultrasound. Just seems petty not to.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting she nan igans:" I'm make him a copy of it for sure. Whether or not I like him has little bearing on him being a father, ... [snip!] ... with his kids. If he is showing interest, it's not a big deal to give him a copy of an ultrasound. Just seems petty not to."

I agree.

lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA* 21 kids; Sherwood, Arkansas 17987 posts
14th Jan '13

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Clk 2 kids; Dexter, Michigan 11529 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" oh just an FYI i dont have a dvd burner so I personally cannot make a copy. he doesnt either. so i dont ... [snip!] ... and im not giving him my only copy to go "make his own copy" somewhere. and i dont have the money to go do it myself."


Do you have a physical copy, like a picture? You can get that scanned on a copy machine, most libraries will have that.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" oh just an FYI i dont have a dvd burner so I personally cannot make a copy. he doesnt either. so i dont ... [snip!] ... and im not giving him my only copy to go "make his own copy" somewhere. and i dont have the money to go do it myself."


Then have him over & show it to him at your place?

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
14th Jan '13

I would... why punish him? This is his future child too. I know you guys didnt work out and he was a dick, but if he has thought about it, made a mistake and shows an interest, I would let him.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting lilmzzgreeneyez *NMOA*:" oh just an FYI i dont have a dvd burner so I personally cannot make a copy. he doesnt either. so i dont ... [snip!] ... and im not giving him my only copy to go "make his own copy" somewhere. and i dont have the money to go do it myself."


Download onto your computer and upload to photobucket maybe?

♥ Mrs. S ♥ Due September 20; 2 kids; Venezuela 12962 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting she nan igans:" I'm make him a copy of it for sure. Whether or not I like him has little bearing on him being a father, ... [snip!] ... with his kids. If he is showing interest, it's not a big deal to give him a copy of an ultrasound. Just seems petty not to."


:!::!:

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49006 posts
14th Jan '13

I sent mine pictures now he hates me.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30523 posts
14th Jan '13
Quoting Click Me Click Me!!!:" I sent mine pictures now he hates me."

Uhmm...ok then.