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T♥B♥A Due June 27 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Denver, CO, United States 12584 posts
25th Jan '13

when me and dustin first got together he would c*m really fast and then obviously that would be the end of it.. he literally trained himself to last longer, maybe a little too long lol but he would masturbate and then right before c*****g he would stop and he just kept doing that(not constantly or anything lol) and after a few weeks he could last much longer.. like at first it was probably at most 5 minutes now it's 15-30 also a c**k ring does help

I♡C&R. 2 kids; Thornton, CO, United States 25114 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting T♥B:" when me and dustin first got together he would c*m really fast and then obviously that would be the end ... [snip!] ... few weeks he could last much longer.. like at first it was probably at most 5 minutes now it's 15-30 also a c**k ring does help"


Interesting. We're going to try a c**k ring. I have bought one, but not tried yet. He did go to the doctor this week and is on a medication that's supposed to help with premature e*********n. I hope it helps. We're trying to give the marriage one last go and things seem better this year both emotionally and physically. Like we're getting on the right track and getting the help we need. Better health insurance sure does make a difference.

James Burner Japan 17 posts
25th Jan '13

Well, most of this stuff seems to be accurate to what I have experienced. Though I would say not to write off the whole 'Every guy is a one-shot Johnny' Because that can vary from man to man. I know that Masturbating regularly has maintained my stamina very well. Even when I lost my virginity it was still a nice 20-30 minutes session. Also, with only a little discomfort haha, I was able to train myself to the point of being able to push through 4 orgasms in a row if need be. Personal stamina is much like runners stamina, or many other athletic skills, it can be trained. Personally if I were in his situation, I would be doing anything in my power to change it. (Not saying he isn't but just my thoughts) I dont know of any supplements or remedies, but try having him start masturbating repetitively, like a teenager lol. (Thats when I did mine.) Maybe once early in the morning, once as soon as he gets the chance in the afternoon (Not like the bathroom at work or anything, but as soon as he gets home.) and then once after dinner. Keep up that routine, AND try to have a sex life, and I'm sure his stamina will improve exponentially.

I♡C&R. 2 kids; Thornton, CO, United States 25114 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting James Burner:" Well, most of this stuff seems to be accurate to what I have experienced. Though I would say not to write ... [snip!] ... then once after dinner. Keep up that routine, AND try to have a sex life, and I'm sure his stamina will improve exponentially."

I do appreciate the feedback and advice. I am taking everything into consideration at this point. It means a lot that you took time to stop by and give man advice :wink:

James Burner Japan 17 posts
25th Jan '13

I am hoping male perspective might help on some of these, like this one, and maybe I can get the female perspective on some more things and improve myself as a mate.... or potential mate at this point, but same difference. ;) and if you ever need more male advice, never fear to message me. haha

I♡C&R. 2 kids; Thornton, CO, United States 25114 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting James Burner:" I am hoping male perspective might help on some of these, like this one, and maybe I can get the female ... [snip!] ... or potential mate at this point, but same difference. ;) and if you ever need more male advice, never fear to message me. haha"

Thank you. Same to you :)

maria30 2 kids; Florida 57 posts
25th Jan '13

I wish atleast once in a while I could experience my husband c*****g fast while inside of me. We're married for almost 6 years but my SO NEVER really c*m by just sexual intercourse he always finish it with h**d j*b of which it really hurt my feelings and self esteem coz it feels like I'm not doing it right or am not attractive to him at all :( but I guess I'm just getting used to it as time passes by.

James Burner Japan 17 posts
25th Jan '13
Quoting maria30:" I wish atleast once in a while I could experience my husband c*****g fast while inside of me. We're married ... [snip!] ... like I'm not doing it right or am not attractive to him at all :( but I guess I'm just getting used to it as time passes by."

Believe me that is not true. Out of an eleven month relationship, in which we started having sex within a week I came a total of three times from regular intercourse . every other time it required manual, or Aux. sex. Some guys are just like that, My last GF got really sad once, because we had sex for 80 minutes, and I didn't c*m. I told her it wasn't her, that it was just me, but it is really hard to convince someone of sexual attractiveness. But believe me their is nothing you are doing wrong, It seems to me that if you are keeping him hard and going you should be proud of that! Haha.