So Saturday I sent out my daughters xmas pics I picked them up Friday yeah late but meh had to get funds to get them lol. Anyways I sent some out to my exs sister (no biggie we talk here and there regarding the wee one) but I also decided to send some to my exs grandmother with extra for his mom. I sent a letter with those containing my phone number saying I wasn't sure if my ex had given it to her, the woman was always nothing but nice to me and made my daughter two blankets which I fought my ex for and she sent a card to him for my daughter saying she hopes to meet her one day I'm 100% sure when he walked away from our daughter he didn't give anybody my number though I asked him to. Now I guess I'm regretting sending them I'm worrying myself that it might start crap with him which is the complete opposite of what I want. I'm probably overreacting but I feel that even if he doesn't want to be around our daughter that it shouldn't stop his family (at no point am I forcing them just making sure the branch is there) Sigh i started freaking yesterday when i noticed his sister posted a pic of the pics I sent her on her page which he is on. I don't want his family forcing him to be around when he doesn't want to be.
I wouldn't worry about it...obviously they appreciate the effort and they have a right to be included in her life even if he isn't.
If it starts shit, tell him to go fuck himself /shrug
I'm becoming very good friends with this baby's paternal aunt. It pisses my ex off and he's constantly bitching at both of us. We ignore him tbh.
I'm very close to my eldest daughter's family too, we're living with her dad's eldest sister at the moment actually. If the dad has to be shit, you're very lucky if his family is awesome. Hopefully they're willing to build a relationship!
Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" If it starts shit, tell him to go fuck himself /shrug I'm becoming very good friends with this baby's ... [snip!] ... If the dad has to be shit, you're very lucky if his family is awesome. Hopefully they're willing to build a relationship!"
Yeah I love his grandmother but his mother i really am not fond of she's a nasty woman but I figured hey I'll bite the bullet and be nice. The majority of his family I avoid they are just full of drama and his dad is a drunk pervert but I think I would hate myself more if I didn't try even though I'm going to stress about it till they either call/write back or a few months have gone by with nothing.