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Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting K.Lynn09:" So you did mean it offensively when you called her kids that. Sorry I stood up trying to defend what you said. *insert foot into mouth*"


It was clear as day, but I'm glad you realized it, she's just a bitch it's whatever. No one uses the term bastard anymore because it's offensive even in the simplest context.

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Chelsea :3:" It was clear as day, but I'm glad you realized it, she's just a bitch it's whatever. No one uses the term bastard anymore because it's offensive even in the simplest context. "


That's just it MY family and my SO'S family DO! We don't mean anything degrading by it we simply use it to state a fact. If your kid is a bastard its a bastard! Like I said my SO refers to himself as a bastard because he was born before his parents got married. My family refer's to my step-sister's son as a bastard because he was born out of wedlock. Its just how we talk. We get that people aren't always married before they have kids. We don't treat them or their kids any differently. Heck our old neighbors daughter was the sweetest girl in the world and we all loved her and liked spoiling her but when I first asked my dad if her mom and dad were married or just dating he said "nope little girl is a bastard. And a cute little one at that!" Its just how we talk.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting K.Lynn09:" That's just it MY family and my SO'S family DO! We don't mean anything degrading by it we simply use ... [snip!] ... dad were married or just dating he said "nope little girl is a bastard. And a cute little one at that!" Its just how we talk."


That's different than what she said though she meant harm. That's all. Like I said I'm a bastard lol. And I say things like "That bastard!" jokingly etc., she didn't mean it that way. Nor in true context she was insulting this girl. It doesn't matter like I said everyone knows she's just bitter and mean for some reason. It just isn't right anymore. It's like using the N word because that's what it means. Back in the day Bastard was a terrible thing. A bastard child was treated terrible as well as his/her parents. Now it's all too common. And the only reason I'm not married is because of credit honestly LOL. SO has awesome Credit and mine has been ruined since before I was able to know what it is. I just think it shouldn't be used outside of family, or an adult atmosphere she brought someones kids into an argument... It was wrong.

Marissaaaa. Due May 17 (twins); 2 kids; Georgia 90 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" After reading all this, here's my input. You need to seriously start making better life decisions. ... [snip!] ... one day when you get your shit together and get married, you'll want children with your husband. I seriously advise an IUD."


My mom also mentioned the IUD. But since I've had c-sections with my two first kids, most doctors try not to go over 3. 4 at the most. I'm leaning closer towards tying my tubes but not 100% yet

★ASHLEY★ 17 kids; Michigan 1274 posts
18th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Marissaaaa.:</b>" My mom also mentioned the IUD. But since I've had c-sections with my two first kids, most doctors try not to go over 3. 4 at the most. I'm leaning closer towards tying my tubes but not 100% yet"</blockquote>




I wouldn't get your tubes tied just yet. Your really young still. Get the implant.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13

Double wrap and BC...

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Chelsea :3:" Double wrap and BC... "


I heard double wrapping doesnt work, that it makes it more possible for it to break. I dont really know about that, but thats just what i heard.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Tay L:" I heard double wrapping doesnt work, that it makes it more possible for it to break. I dont really know about that, but thats just what i heard."


Oh that wasn't a serious statement, I was making more of a joke lol :3

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Tay L:" I heard double wrapping doesnt work, that it makes it more possible for it to break. I dont really know about that, but thats just what i heard."


Then you heard right! Double wrapping creates friction condoms are meant to withstand and makes it more likely that BOTH condoms will break. Go on pretty much any condom website and you will be able to find a place (Usually in the F.A.Q. section) where they will say NOT to double wrap.

Tay L 1 child; St Paul, Minnesota 719 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Chelsea :3:" Oh that wasn't a serious statement, I was making more of a joke lol :3"


Oh i've heard people actually tell people to do that. Who were being totally serious

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Tay L:" Oh i've heard people actually tell people to do that. Who were being totally serious"


No my SO's ex made the same joke when she found out I was pregnant. Asking him if he double wrapped or something, she didn't know we were trying. Lol.

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Chelsea :3:" No my SO's ex made the same joke when she found out I was pregnant. Asking him if he double wrapped or something, she didn't know we were trying. Lol."


I bet she was just jealous that you have him now :)

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting K.Lynn09:" I bet she was just jealous that you have him now :)"


More so that I'm pregnant she left SO for another guy or well... Got caught effing another guy in their shower while my SO was sleeping! Lol, and her new boy wont give her a baby. She was jealous. It scared me one time SO's three year old with her, was over, and we were at dinner and he starts talking about how I'm supposed to have the baby then someones going to take the baby away and give it to his mommy. I was like WHOA you heard that somewhere I know it. And now she talks about "Well since I can't have anymore children I might as well spoil your little girl." when talking to my SO she still doesn't actually give ME the time of day.

I declare a Time War 1 child; Ohio 1591 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Chelsea :3:" More so that I'm pregnant she left SO for another guy or well... Got caught effing another guy in their ... [snip!] ... children I might as well spoil your little girl." when talking to my SO she still doesn't actually give ME the time of day."


That's creepy. That would freak me out to no end! I'm the paranoid type though. I would probably insist she is not to be around my baby unless I was there.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting K.Lynn09:" That's creepy. That would freak me out to no end! I'm the paranoid type though. I would probably insist she is not to be around my baby unless I was there. "


That's what about to happen lol. I'm the same way.