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TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 22817 posts
15th Jan '13
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" I caught my little brother doing this.Allthough I walked into his room at the time and he was really embarresed."


What you described doesnt sound anything like what the OP has described.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
15th Jan '13
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" I caught my little brother doing this.Allthough I walked into his room at the time and he was really embarresed."

You caught him masturbating alone in his room, or masturbating next to his sisters?



Did you even read OPs posts?

user banned Des Moines, Iowa 1848 posts
15th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Honey&E:</b>" I think you need to intervene when this happens. I would keep him away from the girls during bathing and bathroom time. This will be extra work for you. "</blockquote>




This is what we have been doing for the past nearly two years. It is now routine, but still makes for an unpleasant system in our home.



His therapist says he has been exposed to inappropriate sexual behavior outside of our home and has perhaps been molested. He has had two therapists come to this conclusion. My boy won't open up to the therapist about sex at all. He gets very silent, guilty looking, and won't look therapist in the eye. He was checked out by OCS. The people there said something had definitely happened but he was noncooperative in telling them what happened. He did tell his Dad and myself about a couple of incidents with my husbands ex (I really don't want to get into that) but he only spoke to his first therapist about it, and will not bring it up with the current therapist who is female.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17; 1 child; Kentucky 19589 posts
status 15th Jan '13
Quoting Rd.:" You caught him masturbating alone in his room, or masturbating next to his sisters? Did you even read OPs posts?"

lmao. she has no clue.

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40235 posts
15th Jan '13

Oh Momma, I'm so sorry. :( I can only imagine how worried and upset you must be to have to even think about how to help your son.



What did the child psychologist say? Have they mentioned inpatient treatment?

Guyana 160 posts
15th Jan '13

I really hate to say, because I can't imagine being in your shoes, since they're all your children, but I really don't think a simple therapist is going to be able to do much for this. Maybe a psychiatrist, at least.. My heart aches for you and your family, what a difficult predicament to be in.

P Pickle Pants 98 kids; California 20522 posts
15th Jan '13

I would absolutely have him in an inpatient facility. You cannot continue to put your daughters at risk.



And leaving him in the home would be emotionally harmful to your daughters who were already victims of his behavior. I would seek therapy for them while he's out of the home at an inpatient facility and help you determine what is best for the family as a whole.

I love Daisy xxxx Due July 4; Manchester, United Kingdom 1422 posts
15th Jan '13

Wouldn't want to think this but just read the post again, it seem's a bit extreme for such a young child, has he been round anyone that could of done anything or seen anything on t.v?Cos this really doesn't seem normal for such a young child.It's a horrible thought and hope its just a phase he's going through.

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
15th Jan '13
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" I caught my little brother doing this.Allthough I walked into his room at the time and he was really embarresed."

Masturbating in the privacy of one's own room and doing it while sitting next to your siblings is completely different.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17; 1 child; Kentucky 19589 posts
status 15th Jan '13
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" Wouldn't want to think this but just read the post again, it seem's a bit extreme for such a young child, ... [snip!] ... this really doesn't seem normal for such a young child.It's a horrible thought and hope its just a phase he's going through."

your elevator doesn't quite go to the top, does it?

Nut ღ Meg Beverly Hills, CA, United States 40235 posts
15th Jan '13
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" I caught my little brother doing this.Allthough I walked into his room at the time and he was really embarresed."


It's common for young boys to masturbate. This is not the issue in this scenario.

I love Daisy xxxx Due July 4; Manchester, United Kingdom 1422 posts
15th Jan '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" what?"

Sorry, didn't read the comment's she had put.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
15th Jan '13
Quoting Kayleigh-louise Moran:" Wouldn't want to think this but just read the post again, it seem's a bit extreme for such a young child, ... [snip!] ... this really doesn't seem normal for such a young child.It's a horrible thought and hope its just a phase he's going through."

There should be an intelligence test before anyone posts... Just stop.

Love Wedge +2 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Waterloo, Ontario 44310 posts
15th Jan '13
Quoting Rd.:" There should be an intelligence test before anyone posts... Just stop."

xD

I love Daisy xxxx Due July 4; Manchester, United Kingdom 1422 posts
15th Jan '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" ooo...k..........."

I meant playing with himself.Nothing else lol.