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Biological Sisters - trying to find them...help! Jessiye 1 child; Hudson, Massachusetts 402 posts
16th Jan '13

I was adopted when I was 4 years old and had an open adoption with my biological mother. I have 2 younger sisters that were also adopted but there adoptions were closed so I was not able to see them or know any information about them. But they are both of age now and I am trying to find them. I have there full names from birth, birth dates, SSN, and the hospitals they were born in, and possible a town one of my sisters may live in.



Does anyone know how I can use the internet to help me find them or where I can go that can help me find them. DCF (department of child and families) is the last place I'd like to go. Only because I have tried them before and they are nothing but rude and not willing to help me.



I've thought of trying facebook but that won't work because they have different last names now.



Is there a FREE website I can use there SSN to look them up by or how can I access public records to maybe find information. I'm just desperate at this point and want to have this last piece of the puzzle in my life right now found. I miss them :'( and I really want to find them.

C.xox-mama Due October 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; St Thomas, Ontario 1599 posts
status 16th Jan '13

i have no idea but good luck!! :)

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
16th Jan '13

My mom is a private investigator and could most likely help you. Let me know if you are interested and I can give you her number.

Nick and Mikaelyn's Momma 3 kids; Rancho Santa Margarita, California 5074 posts
16th Jan '13

I'd help you but I don't have a computer right now but a few sites that would help are
Peekyou.com
Spokeo.com
Peoplefinder.com
Google name and city/state
Anywho.com
411.com
Intellius.com
Some sites will also give you possible realitives and u can go search those too. Good luck

Jessiye 1 child; Hudson, Massachusetts 402 posts
16th Jan '13
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" My mom is a private investigator and could most likely help you. Let me know if you are interested and I can give you her number."


I would absolutely LOVE that! Does she charge? I don't really have any money right now to pay anyone...

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Boos Momma:</b>" I would absolutely LOVE that! Does she charge? I don't really have any money right now to pay anyone..."</blockquote>




Yeah she charges. But I'll ask her if she knows any free sites. Either way I will PM you her number just in case. :)

Jessiye 1 child; Hudson, Massachusetts 402 posts
16th Jan '13
Quoting ℳizz ℊiz. :" <blockquote><b>Quoting Boos Momma:</b>" I would absolutely LOVE that! Does she charge? ... [snip!] ... Yeah she charges. But I'll ask her if she knows any free sites. Either way I will PM you her number just in case. :)"


How much does she charge? I'm just afraid to pay someone and them not be able to help me... And thank you for your help. I really appreciate it!

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
16th Jan '13

There's a website somewhere where u post what pure looking for and people who have access to like public records and stuff volunteer to look for info to help you. Idk exactly what it's called but I used it when i was searching for my 1/2 brother. But unfortunately I'm starting to think that's a lost cause :( it makes me sad often.

Bob Wehadababyitsaboy 3 kids; 4 angel babies; California 30128 posts
16th Jan '13

I would just try Facebook, they may still have their last name listed where you can search for them, just put in their names and the towns they now live in and see if you get any results.

✰ Mrs. B ✰ 2 kids; Texas 2640 posts
16th Jan '13

I had an older sister who was adopted and she found us because our mother put her info on a website where adopted children and birth moms put their info- like the baby's birthday, gender, city/hospital born at, etc.



I've got no clue what the website was though but they found each other that way and my mother received a call one evening from her. This was after she spent years trying to track us down with lawyers, adoption agency, etc. and had gotten no where. Wish I could be more help than that, but that's all I remember :(

user banned 19 kids; Japan 4077 posts
16th Jan '13

Ok I wrote you alot of info that I HOPE will be helpful. In a private message. :)
And of course!! :D

LiLMuChAcHa22 1 child; California 3838 posts
17th Jan '13

Aww hope you find your sisters. My mom was adopted when she was a few days or weeks old. And she never knew her race or anything about her or her biological parents... I wish I would know what race I am or find information about her family.. My mom died when I was 12 so she cannot find out anything