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Can we have a three sum babe? _The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
16th Jan '13

Has this question ever been brought up at some point in your relationship?
I ask because one of my best friends told me she's been having a "thing" for me and would like to act on it...at first I thought absolutely not. But then in started thinking about it and thought humm I wonder if it would be fun for all three of us to be involved. I asked my husband and his response was "no I wouldn't wanna share you, you're my wife and I love you" I seriously thought he'd say yes. And then I felt really stupid and awkward for even asking. Lol. Would you ever be okay with adding another girl to the mix? Or even another guy? Just curious.

Uh-Nis-Uh [EBF] 2 kids; West Virginia 15190 posts
16th Jan '13

Honestly, my DH has never asked for a tree sum..

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13908 posts
16th Jan '13

My husband wouldn't even consider it, no way. He waited until marriage for sex in the first place, he's not going to screw some random person along with his wife.
And me.. well, I'm not that closed off. BUT, I would be so insecure if there were another girl hahhaha

_The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Uh-Nis-Uh [EBF]:</b>" Honestly, my DH has never asked for a tree sum.."</blockquote>




Typo

Ms. Danielly Belly 51 kids; San Marcos, California 666 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Super*Mom*:</b>" Has this question ever been brought up at some point in your relationship? I ask because one of my best ... [snip!] ... awkward for even asking. Lol. Would you ever be okay with adding another girl to the mix? Or even another guy? Just curious."</blockquote>



He has joking asked me and we have talked about it a little but nothing to serious

_The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vivian [♥]:</b>" My husband wouldn't even consider it, no way. He waited until marriage for sex in the first place, he's ... [snip!] ... along with his wife. And me.. well, I'm not that closed off. BUT, I would be so insecure if there were another girl hahhaha"</blockquote>




I thought about the insecurity and, I know I'd be thinking about it...but I think I would still try. Lol, I hate that I'm okay with these things and he isn't!

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
16th Jan '13

Nope neither of us have or would.

user banned 1 child; Bluefield, Virginia 1053 posts
16th Jan '13

i asked my husband, and he said exactly what urs said...thats funny. i thought it was EVERY guys fantasy

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
16th Jan '13

Hell no.




That is all.

_The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ms. Danielly Belly:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Super*Mom*:</b>" Has this question ever been brought up at ... [snip!] ... guy? Just curious."</blockquote> He has joking asked me and we have talked about it a little but nothing to serious"</blockquote>




Do you think that by joking about it he might have gotten a "yes" out of you? I ask thing in a joking manner sometimes to ease the pressure of a potentially serious situation. Lol

Monsters Mama*11 weeks* Due November 7; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Illinois 999 posts
16th Jan '13

My ex SO/BD and I were going to have a three some with my bestfriend years ago. That is how we first started having sex. Then we ended up having a baby. Actually just about a week ago we talked about having one with the same bestfriend lol. I think it would be fun to try. I also think his response was sweet though :)

_The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" i asked my husband, and he said exactly what urs said...thats funny. i thought it was EVERY guys fantasy"</blockquote>




Me too, I guess he would if it was before me and with two random girls KWIM?

_The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tori♥Landon!:</b>" My ex SO/BD and I were going to have a three some with my bestfriend years ago. That is how we first ... [snip!] ... about having one with the same bestfriend lol. I think it would be fun to try. I also think his response was sweet though :)"</blockquote>




So you guys need actually did or didn't?
I thought his response was sweet too and then I felt like a total dumb ass for even asking!

BrookeT Due April 26; Fort McMurray, Alberta 440 posts
16th Jan '13

We both would try it but never have but we have a very "try anything once" policy when it comes to sex and there isn't a lot that makes either of us uncomfortable.

_The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BrookeT:</b>" We both would try it but never have but we have a very "try anything once" policy when it comes to sex and there isn't a lot that makes either of us uncomfortable."</blockquote>




Even adding another guy?