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user banned 1 child; Bluefield, Virginia 1053 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting *Super*Mom*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kyleigh'sMommy12:</b>" reall? is this a fake comment?"</blockquote> No, she was being sarcastic."


yeah i realized after i sumbitted it, lol

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting *Super*Mom*:" Has this question ever been brought up at some point in your relationship? I ask because one of my best ... [snip!] ... awkward for even asking. Lol. Would you ever be okay with adding another girl to the mix? Or even another guy? Just curious."


When someone is in a committed relationship, it is a BAD idea. Otherwise, I see no problem with it as long as everyone is responsible. I have a friend who did this with her husband and her friend ended up getting pregnant. Small chance their, but still....it's an example of what people are doing when they bring in a third person.

Zariah♥ 1 child; Bolingbrook, Illinois 758 posts
17th Jan '13

SO has mentioned it but never like directly said he wanted that.



As for me. I'm open to another girl. The only problem I would have is the insecurity issue too.



The thought of another guy creeps me out. Lol.

Landon & Harper*37 weeks* Due November 7 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Illinois 1293 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting Is that still my name?:" When someone is in a committed relationship, it is a BAD idea. Otherwise, I see no problem with it as ... [snip!] ... getting pregnant. Small chance their, but still....it's an example of what people are doing when they bring in a third person."


Oh my God! That would suck so bad :( How did it end up if you don't mind me asking?

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting Tori♥Landon!:" Oh my God! That would suck so bad :( How did it end up if you don't mind me asking?"


I didn't even KNOW until years into our friendship. They have been divorced pretty much since.

Landon & Harper*37 weeks* Due November 7 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Illinois 1293 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting Is that still my name?:" I didn't even KNOW until years into our friendship. They have been divorced pretty much since."


Awww :/ I would be devastated.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting Is that still my name?:" I didn't even KNOW until years into our friendship. They have been divorced pretty much since."



:shock:



did the other chick keep it??

Ryloonjimama Australia 18851 posts
17th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Uh-Nis-Uh [EBF]:</b>" Honestly, my DH has never asked for a tree sum.."</blockquote>




Neither has mine.



I don't think he would... probably because he'd just know I'm not down with it, even though we've never actually discussed it.



haha didn't realised until I read right through that you said tree sum, but in all serious my SO hasn't asked for a three sum.

SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting
SMBC**TTC#3 TTC since Jun 2013; 2 kids; California 17897 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Uh-Nis-Uh [EBF]:</b>" Honestly, my DH has never asked for a ... [snip!] ... haha didn't realised until I read right through that you said tree sum, but in all serious my SO hasn't asked for a three sum."



tree sum V three sum..... tree sum is when everyone hugs a giant tree....three sum is well...

Kaibutsu 1 child; Virginia 3525 posts
17th Jan '13

I have never asked and my SO knows better than to ask, I don't know if he's thought about it though, I'd rather not know.

Monkey Nuts Australia 4572 posts
17th Jan '13

Yes it's been brought up.
Yes we've had multiple threesomes.
Not a huge deal IMO.

.:Stacy Renee:. 19 kids; Ohio 6515 posts
17th Jan '13

We talk about it all the time. I'm usually the one bringing it up but it's a HUGE turn on for us both.



I would have a threesome in a heart beat :D

Lil Michael's Mommy 1 child; Taylors, South Carolina 106 posts
17th Jan '13

I have had threesomes in the past with my EX and a roomie from college. My SO has been in an orgy. We have talked about it and we are both open to the experience together but we gotta find the right girl. He does NOT want another guy in there which is ok with me.

kitermom 2 kids; Beaverton, Oregon 740 posts
17th Jan '13

We have had multiple 3/4 somes. No big deal. We enjoy it and it has caused conversation in our relationship but it has FAR from broken us down. If anything we have a much stronger relationship than we once did because we are SO open with each other.



We always have safe sex and my husband is V-safe so he can't get anyone pregnant regardless. (we check his sperm count regularly.) And if there was an oops I wouldn't complete the pregnancy.



My dad's 2nd wife did give birth to a daughter that was the product of a threesome. They dealt with it until my dad became an all around peace of shit to that family and walked out on everyone.