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Just me? AndreaDanae 1 child; Port Washington, Ohio 273 posts
16th Jan '13

So my man and I have been distant from eachother, mostly me towards him. Well he just made love to me (eyes roll in the back of your head kind lol sorry tmi) and I feel like I just fell back in love with him all over again. This happens to other people right?



(been atleast 7 months since the last time we made love) probably why I felt a little distant.

March 2013 3 kids; Illinois 988 posts
16th Jan '13

when its the right person your with..anything is possible. :)

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
16th Jan '13

Yup if I'm feeling distant from SO it helps to get intimate like that. Sometimes it's overwhming for me though and I cry. I hate that :(

AndreaDanae 1 child; Port Washington, Ohio 273 posts
16th Jan '13

I def feel like he is the one. He wants to marry me (:
He isnt very good at hiding things so I know he will be asking by the end of feburary lol

AndreaDanae 1 child; Port Washington, Ohio 273 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Yup if I'm feeling distant from SO it helps to get intimate like that. Sometimes it's overwhming for me though and I cry. I hate that :("</blockquote>




I so totally started to cry and jyst looked and said baby please dont cry

_The Rainmaker_ 2 kids; Houston, Texas 1062 posts
16th Jan '13

I feel distant now, he won't have sex with me because he's scared to hurt the baby. Ugh.
And 7mo with ouch "making love" or having sex all together?

AndreaDanae 1 child; Port Washington, Ohio 273 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Super*Mom*:</b>" I feel distant now, he won't have sex with me because he's scared to hurt the baby. Ugh. And 7mo with ouch "making love" or having sex all together?"</blockquote>



At 19 weeks he started not wanting to have sex. Since then we had sex maybe 10 times and my baby is 6 weeks now. So barely any sex. ): I felt like I disgusted him.

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
16th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting AndreaDanae:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" Yup if I'm feeling distant from SO it helps ... [snip!] ... and I cry. I hate that :("</blockquote> I so totally started to cry and jyst looked and said baby please dont cry"</blockquote>



It's kind of good when I cry because I know it means I feel connected again. Why have u two been intimate in so long?

James Burner Japan 17 posts
17th Jan '13

This happens to a lot of people, The fact is that though most people don't wanna talk about it, the key to maintaining a powerful, and active love is through passion, and the greatest display of passion a man and woman can share with one another is through sex. Sex is important in a relationship, as you seem to be saying, 7 months with out it, and it was affecting your relationship, one mind blowing night/afternoon/morning/back seat of car in the parking lot of Walgreens later, and BOOM its back. It's important to always keep the passion alive by any means necessary, But you luckily have had this chance to see the effects. So hopefully you will be able to remember this in the future and capitalize on it to keep your marriage from going the way so many others do. Good luck, and here's hoping many more of those "Eyes roll back in your head" sessions for your future. ;)

AndreaDanae 1 child; Port Washington, Ohio 273 posts
17th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting AndreaDanae:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" ... [snip!] ... It's kind of good when I cry because I know it means I feel connected again. Why have u two been intimate in so long?"</blockquote>



Probably stress. Rough year for us. Problems after problems, but hoping we are getting everything together now.

AndreaDanae 1 child; Port Washington, Ohio 273 posts
17th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting James Burner:</b>" This happens to a lot of people, The fact is that though most people don't wanna talk about it, the key ... [snip!] ... so many others do. Good luck, and here's hoping many more of those "Eyes roll back in your head" sessions for your future. ;)"</blockquote>



oh im so hoping for more lol (;