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Sex... or lack of. Ecstasy 18 kids; Cuba 7748 posts
17th Jan '13

I finally told DH how im really feeling.. I didn't want him to think im not attracted to him anymore (i totally am & i love him to bits)



Lately ive not even really wanted to be touched, kissed, cuddled etc because i don't want it to lead to sex.. i've not reciprocated kisses/cuddles or affection at all.



Its become too much effort.. im not interested in the slightest & would rather snuggle up to him and go to sleep.



My desire has gone.. its really frustrating because i love him to pieces & i miss that closeness.



Im going to the DR tomorrow because i need to see if there is a way to fix my sex drive without taking my implanon out.



DH suggested getting a vasectomy because he has noticed i've changed heaps - haha his words when i asked him if hes noticed the change 'hell yeah babe, i use to think you were a nympho' LOL!!!



I freaking hate this :(



I hope they can fix it otherwise i'll take DH up on his offer of him getting the snip and cross my fingers/toes i'll return to normal when they remove it.

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
17th Jan '13

awww im sorry hun at least he understands h

Ecstasy 18 kids; Cuba 7748 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting Queen Aries Baby:" awww im sorry hun at least he understands h"


Im so grateful he gets how im feeling, hes really patient and understanding.



Its just really upsetting me because when he use to put his arms around my waist or kiss me i'd get the 'fireworks' feeling and it was so easy for me to be ready for sex or to be elated etc.



Now i feel nothing... no desire at all.. its just a kiss or just him touching me with no 'spark' or emotion attached.. which in turn makes it kind of annoying when hes all over me & im not wanting to be touched.



Its horrible.




I hope i can fix this!

Queen Aries Baby 1 child; Orlando, Florida 12052 posts
17th Jan '13
Quoting ♥ Flame'n Nuisance :" Im so grateful he gets how im feeling, hes really patient and understanding. Its just really upsetting ... [snip!] ... makes it kind of annoying when hes all over me & im not wanting to be touched. Its horrible. I hope i can fix this!"

awww wow i have implanon and im still like overly nympho like its crazy that it would cause this to you. i hope you guys can come up w a solutin it sucks to not feel anything and not by choice. but most importantly hes understanding so its a great thing. i see why you wants the sparks back lol he deserves it

Life is a Highway ♫ 18 kids; Australia 9381 posts
17th Jan '13

Implanon killed mine too. It sucks sooo much. DH is getting the snip because I don't want anything more hormonal and he doesn't want anymore children.