Quoting Safka9973:" <blockquote><b>Quoting iT'S A GiRLツ:</b>" i grew up christian n omg my mom ... [snip!] ... all the physical changes we go through during pregnancy it can be very difficult to find a comfortable way to feel attractive!"
ya with the first pregnancy i whore my old clothes as huge as i was i stretched my poor shirts till they couldnt stretch no more n my belly ripped the prego jeans i did have i used to hate to get ready never knew what to wear
but this time being small i wanted to be different fell comfy and look cute lol
i dyed my hair black since its the only colr that ever looks good but it faded already so idk im thinking about doing the hair after the baby
Quoting iT'S A GiRLツ:" n thats the point i was tryin to get to my cusn her being a mom of 2 soon to be 3 n having a husband ... [snip!] ... lol but i try to fix myself up but im so bad at makup n i nver know what to do wit my hair but hey my bf doesnt complain :)"
I'm horrile with make up as well. I usually throw on some black eyeliner and mascara and call it done.
I feel like I am a representative to my family, and honestly nothing pisses me off more than when a man comments on how "fine" I look. I dunno why, but I feel highly disrespected when I get any form of cat calling in my direction, so I try to dress in a way that prevents that as well.
If my husband had it his way, I'd be in sexy little numbers all the time at home, haha. I'm just not confident enough to don a negligee for him. I'm the type of person who hates to be bare at any time.
Quoting Lacey.Rose:" <blockquote><b>Quoting iT'S A GiRLツ:</b>" i live in pajama pants n my tanks ... [snip!] ... ones in a size large to fit my huge belly. All my t-shirts and sweaters are pretty stretchy though so I just kept wearing them."
me either lol love those things
i would have my old ones from my son but my belly ripped the stretchy part
this time once i got that positive test i got me some prego jeans lol
Quoting iT'S A GiRLツ:" i feel u on that! thats how i felt this time i dreaded the fact i had to get me some stuff i was like ... [snip!] ... probably thought i was weird but i honestly hate spending anything onmyself my mom gets mad at me but i spoiled a little lol"
I hate spending, haha.
A lot of it comes from having been broke and homeless and being afraid that it's gonna happen again. When I spend anything on myself, I feel wretched. It makes me feel dirty, to be honest.
My husband likes to buy new while I'm just as happy going to the thrift store. I'm compromising by choosing places like Plato's closet where they are much more selective on what they take, haha.
3 kids - 5 months PP - currently working out to lose the rest of this baby weight - so im usually always in workout clothes (capris/t-shirt or yoga pants)... if I go out somewhere, jeans & a t-shirt.... I'm not really comfortable in my skin yet... might change after losing weight - I dunno.
You should dress in whatever way makes you comfortable. My grandma wore a lot of sweatpants and sweatshirts lol Maybe.. loosely fitting flowered stuff once in awhile? I don't know any other grandma clothing lol
I dress the same as I did before I was pregnant honestly lol I guess you would call it business casual and sometimes I lean towards rockabilly because I love the style. But I'm a plus sized girl, so I never wear super tight clothes, I always wear flattering things, and nothing skanky lol