ts still early you have time to decided what you want to do but if youre torn... you probably shouldnt have an abortion... adn if youre even having a slight inclination to telling him you may want to... you never know. whos to say he may not have the same idea?... he may help pay for it. but then again whos to say he doesnt ask you if you two could get to know one another?... ive been around the military for a long time my hubby is a vet and in the reserves. most of the time... they are the best fathers and they dont shrug responsibilities even if you dont stay together but in my personal opinion... id tell him... it is his child too after all... but you are grown do what your heart tells you.