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☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
18th Jan '13

There's a super simple solution to this. You can't change the people, but you can add only people you know on Facebook, and make your pictures private.:idea:
with 4,000 friends, OF COURSE you have some assholes on there.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting melindapple:" When I was WORKING in retail, some lady asked me if I had gotten pregnant just to receive welfare. And ... [snip!] ... between us it was either wait until he's in his 30's, or me be young. I just dust it off, they aren't in charge of what I do."


this is me! I'm 20 and my SO is 26 so people see my age and say 'we' are too young to have children. Um no, he makes 16+ and I'm going to school. And I'll be a stay at home mom. And very good to my daughter. No one ever really brings up welfare for me. But OP that's horrible, and even when it's private or you don't have 4392843902 friends it can still go viral. Just ignore them. Sorry for your loss, Congrats on the baby girl!

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting *MaKinsey Rae's Mommy*:" Thank you all for your comments and advice :) really appreciate it. And to answer the question about ... [snip!] ... I deleted all the model pics and what not and started trying to delete friends its a lot of work... so I just left them there. "


Make a new Facebook for only friends?:idea:

Wanda George Gilbert Due July 12; Japan 4 posts
18th Jan '13
I see everyone keep writing post your pics to private. You should not have to this is your Joy.. Dont let them steal your joy and ur babies... Thank God for the blessing he has given you.. I pray everything goes well with you and ur baby girl congrats...Quoting *MaKinsey Rae's Mommy*:" So I posted this photo yesterday on my facebook page https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=101524 ... [snip!] ... thought about it. I'm doing what I do for my babygirl and not others. Has anyone else ever encountered rude people like this.?"
_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Wanda George Gilbert:" "


Um, actually, yeah, you sort of should.



If you have nearly 5k friends, and you post something PUBLIC to basically 5 thousand people, then you should expect responses. Given that it's nearly 5 thousand people, some of those people will be negative. If you don't expect that, then you're very naive.



If you want to be "popular" and put your life on public display then you have to expect a public response.

Wanda George Gilbert Due July 12; Japan 4 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting she nan igans:" Um, actually, yeah, you sort of should. If you have nearly 5k friends, and you post something PUBLIC ... [snip!] ... very naive. If you want to be "popular" and put your life on public display then you have to expect a public response. "


I am really not saying you guys are wrong.. I just dont think no one should have to feel bad about having a baby .. Maybe she should just erase the negative ppl.. Idk I just felt bad because she has already has lost a child and people are so rude...

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Wanda George Gilbert:" "


Who's stealing babies? :lol:

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Wanda George Gilbert:" I am really not saying you guys are wrong.. I just dont think no one should have to feel bad about having ... [snip!] ... she should just erase the negative ppl.. Idk I just felt bad because she has already has lost a child and people are so rude..."


Well, in a perfect world, everyone would congratulate her.
But, people are assholes, so that's not how it works lol.




We wouldn't have suggested any of that if she didn't state that her feelings were hurt by it. If she doesn't want to be hurt anymore, she needs to start over with only people she knows.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13

LOL at the one girl who commented on the pic.
Apparently Tattoos kill babies now.
Anyways yeah private pics man :/ sucky world.

Wanda George Gilbert Due July 12; Japan 4 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Who's stealing babies? :lol:"



obviously I worte it wrong.. I was just trying to encourage her.. Didnt really know it would offend anyone.. But we all know this world is not perfect. I try to help uplift others when there having diffrent ssues so.. I just wish the best for her.

jen black 2 kids; California 2321 posts
18th Jan '13

Yup. All the time.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Wanda George Gilbert:" obviously I worte it wrong.. I was just trying to encourage her.. Didnt really know it would offend ... [snip!] ... know this world is not perfect. I try to help uplift others when there having diffrent ssues so.. I just wish the best for her."


Calm down, I was joking.



But that's not helpful. Telling her not to change her pictures to private. The comments hurt her, and the only way to stop them is to make them private.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Calm down, I was joking. But that's not helpful. Telling her not to change her pictures to private. The comments hurt her, and the only way to stop them is to make them private."


I like viciously bitching people out, at least I get some frustration out.
But seriously make them private. You still get to share them.
Just with people who actually care.

GONE. PZ OUT. 2 kids; California 1278 posts
18th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sami&Baby Silas:</b>" Ignore them. If you don't want the rude comments I would 1 set the picture to only friends and not have 4,000 friends on your page"</blockquote>




This!

Lorraine Hyman Due May 12; 1 child; Lake City, Florida 1 posts
25th Mar '13
Quoting *MaKinsey Rae's Mommy*:" So I posted this photo yesterday on my facebook page https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=101524 ... [snip!] ... thought about it. I'm doing what I do for my babygirl and not others. Has anyone else ever encountered rude people like this.?"


Wow I Remembering seeing that post...U gotta ignore ppl Congrats Ur Right I know Exactly what u meant