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............................ Addi's Momma TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 4987 posts
18th Jan '13

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~Mommy2NuNu~ 17 kids; 福井市, Japan 1511 posts
18th Jan '13

im so sorry hun, i hope things get better eityher with or without him, thats no way to talk to anyone

Soon 2B Mom of 2 2 kids; North Highlands, California 3785 posts
18th Jan '13

Wow... Your DH is a douche bag. I really hope you get the job and can get away from him, because you deserve so much better than that. Sorry your going through this.

castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 18092 posts
18th Jan '13

Wow, I'm sorry you are living like that.



Even if you don't get this job, I would look for another one. You need the stability of being able to care for yourself.



You can do it as a single mom! I became a single mom (I only had one baby at the time) and landed an awesome job (I was a sahm) nd then met the man of my dreams after my divorce.



Be confident, mamma. You don't deserve to be treated like garbage, and you don't want you kids growing up thinking that this is how a man should treat a woman.

¡VinHaute! Memphis, Tennessee 44002 posts
18th Jan '13

He's being extremely harsh. He sounds like a giant crusty a*****e tbh. Find your own insurance? You're carrying his child FFS.



Unless he's willing to go to counseling, I don't see how anyone could stand to be with such a person. I'm sorry :(



Good luck on your interview.

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 8599 posts
18th Jan '13

That's not right. He's an ungreatful a*****e from the sounds of it. Smh. I'd be leaving him, you nor your kids don't need to be around that. Smh. I'm sorry he seems to think so low of you. I can't stand a guy like that.

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
18th Jan '13

wow. Seems to me like he's been talking to someone that put those ideas in his head if he had told you before to SAH and he'd take care of you and all of a sudden he doesn't agree with it?
I'm sorry, he went about that completely wrong with you and definitely could have shared his feelings on the matter in a much less hateful way. :(

The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42577 posts
18th Jan '13

What a f**king dick :?



If you get a desktop and a landline hardwired to it you can get a work at home job through quite a few customer service places. That's what i'm doing so I can go back to work immediately after the baby is born, because i'm single.

flip off 2 kids; Forks, Washington 1490 posts
18th Jan '13

GET OUT NOW.....any way you can. please trust me. I went through this EXACT thing and it just got worse and worse

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
18th Jan '13

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Addi's Momma TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 4987 posts
18th Jan '13

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YoyoMa 2 kids; 10 angel babies; Nowhere, HI, United States 2163 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Addi's Momma:" Thanks ladies. I really hope I get the job. I just had to get this all out. Apparently, he has felt this ... [snip!] ... he has felt this way for 3 years and didn't want to say anything because I would get my feelings hurt and be mad at him."


Good luck honey... what he is saying is really abusive. I hope you can land the job and get some independence. Stay strong for you and those babies!

Gosloving 1 child; Washington 12831 posts
18th Jan '13

Sounds to me like you should had got rid of his loser ass a long time ago. I truly hope you get that job & are able to leave him. No one should have to live with a person like that whether he was joking or not, that was a dick move.

Bri + One ♥ Due October 19; 1 child; Florida 4316 posts
18th Jan '13

What a douche. You & your babies deserve better than that. Not sure if I misread this but...how exactly can he be mad at you for being there for the birth of your daughter? I mean, you kind of had no choice in that matter considering you were the one pushing her out.

Addi's Momma TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 4987 posts
18th Jan '13
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