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Do guys masterbate with condoms BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
18th Jan '13

I was cleaning up, and DH keeps a box of condoms in a drawer. I noticed the box was open. The box says 10 condoms but only 8 are there...we have been together for 5 years he has never given me a reason to think he's cheating. Maybe he masterbated with it?



Should I confront him today or maybe wait a few days and see if more disappear?? Ugh I feel sick.



We have not had sex in months and barley eer do it.

Loretta West [+1] Due March 26 (boy); TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 6807 posts
18th Jan '13

My ex used that excuse, that he was masturbating with them... He was lying :? Doesn't mean your hubby was, though. I'd ask him about it.

Vivian [♥] 2 kids; Balls Deep, in, Georgia 13935 posts
18th Jan '13

It's possible. Or he put some in his wallet or somewhere else Idk. I wouldn't jump on him about it unless you see other signs he might be cheating.

ERMAGHERD BEEDS! 17 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4099 posts
18th Jan '13

Ask him........

MamaCass{+JOE} 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Pennsylvania 42358 posts
18th Jan '13

My husband has admitted to me that when he was a teen he used to masturbate with condoms. Guess it's definitely possible. Maybe try confronting him?

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20227 posts
18th Jan '13

I've never heard of a guy using a condom when he masturbates. There isn't much point in it.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
18th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vivian [♥]:</b>" It's possible. Or he put some in his wallet or somewhere else Idk. I wouldn't jump on him about it unless you see other signs he might be cheating."</blockquote>




Yeah or maybe a friend asked him for a couple? I'd wait and
See if more go missing.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36618 posts
18th Jan '13

Uh... no. I dont know a guy that would do that. wtf.

Amy {OneGirl, TwoBoys} 3 kids; Cincinnati, Oh, United States 24256 posts
18th Jan '13

i wouldn think they do....mine never has anyway



but dont jump to conclusions. maybe he gave some to a friend, brother, etc?

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
18th Jan '13

That's tough. I would confront him, but keep it light hearted and see the reaction I get from that. I would probably just mention that I noticed the condom box had been opened and ask who was getting lucky since I hadn't been...



But that would work for our relationship. I guess some guys might immediately take offense to that, perhaps particularly if they're guilty, though? I don't know.

UhmAmber 1 child; Texas 2415 posts
18th Jan '13

I've heard of it because "it's less messy"
there could be all kinds of explanations though, he could have given a couple to a friend, put some in his car/wallet? (maybe he wants to be more spontaneous. :wink:)
You should just casually ask him. If he gets defensive, THEN you should worry.

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Amber :]:" I've heard of it because "it's less messy" there could be all kinds of explanations though, he could ... [snip!] ... (maybe he wants to be more spontaneous. :wink:) You should just casually ask him. If he gets defensive, THEN you should worry."

Exactly.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
18th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Juggernog-aholic:</b>" I've never heard of a guy using a condom when he masturbates. There isn't much point in it."</blockquote>




Well unless they are having trouble lasting and trying to build stamina? I'm just throwing things out here. I really have no clue as to why a guy would use it to jerk the chicken lol.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
18th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Purple Penguin:</b>" That's tough. I would confront him, but keep it light hearted and see the reaction I get from that. I ... [snip!] ... I guess some guys might immediately take offense to that, perhaps particularly if they're guilty, though? I don't know."</blockquote>




Lol that's funny way to ask.

S U Z I E 3 kids; Venezuela 18556 posts
18th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BG Secrets:</b>" I was cleaning up, and DH keeps a box of condoms in a drawer. I noticed the box was open. The box says ... [snip!] ... or maybe wait a few days and see if more disappear?? Ugh I feel sick. We have not had sex in months and barley eer do it."</blockquote>




Why does he keep them in a drawer if you guys don't use them?