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Amber.J 1 child; Texas 260 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Brookelynbaby:" First of all, my heart goes out to you . That is so awful, some times we are dealt a bad hand,. ask yourself ... [snip!] ... so you could do couples therapy? Right now is the Hardest part, all things shall pass! let me know? Concerned for you.:cry: "


No he didn't tell me, I walked in on all the action.



I think I need therapy to get that image out of my head.

SubLowe 1 child; Oceanside, California 15387 posts
18th Jan '13

what? ok .. yea what a f**king scumbag ! dude ... what kind of a person would bring a ho to your own bed with your child next door. i wouldnt even want to work on it ... but thats just me. thats low and dirty of him

Amber.J 1 child; Texas 260 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" I'm so sorry for you and your daughter. :( At least you found out now before you got married. "


AMEN!!

Tiff + 2[girls] 2 kids; Montana 6000 posts
18th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Amber.J:</b>" That picture is so old of Lilly she was like 6 months or something. She doesn't even look like the same wittle Lilly! "</blockquote>




Well I'm sure she's a very cute toddler now lol :)

Amber.J 1 child; Texas 260 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting OneLoveMama:" what? ok .. yea what a f**king scumbag ! dude ... what kind of a person would bring a ho to your own ... [snip!] ... to your own bed with your child next door. i wouldnt even want to work on it ... but thats just me. thats low and dirty of him"


EXACTLY. It's like, had he just told me he made a mistake, maybe it would be worth fixing, figure out if I did something wrong to make him want to go somewhere else. But to bring it back into MY HOME? Knowing I'm coming home at some point that night and yet still you'd risk everything? It's like he wanted to be caught. But I just don't understand why.

Amber.J 1 child; Texas 260 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Tiff + 2[girls]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Amber.J:</b>" That picture is so old of Lilly she was like ... [snip!] ... She doesn't even look like the same wittle Lilly! "</blockquote> Well I'm sure she's a very cute toddler now lol :)"


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Plenty more where that cuteness came from.

Brookelynbaby Due April 7; Duluth, Georgia 64 posts
18th Jan '13

Yes, take all the help you can get now! You are worth way more then what you had to see! OMG , where is he, now. I hope you will not let him see you at you for a good bit of time to heal? You need to take time for yourself right now! Your a strong woman, I don't even want to think about what I would have done oh and you are a mother you made it threw child birth You are strong!. Sorry just had to say. Call a attorney, if you haven't you may have to do this soon, as the fact he already did this, what next? You can do it!

Amber.J 1 child; Texas 260 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Brookelynbaby:" Yes, take all the help you can get now! You are worth way more then what you had to see! OMG , where ... [snip!] ... say. Call a attorney, if you haven't you may have to do this soon, as the fact he already did this, what next? You can do it! "


I haven't seen him, I dropped Lilly off at his Moms. His Mother who once hated me, is trying to be the civil one in the situation and she knows what he did was wrong and she's pissed, but she doesn't want it to ruin HER life with her granddaughter.

SubLowe 1 child; Oceanside, California 15387 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Amber.J:" EXACTLY. It's like, had he just told me he made a mistake, maybe it would be worth fixing, figure out ... [snip!] ... some point that night and yet still you'd risk everything? It's like he wanted to be caught. But I just don't understand why. "


men are so stupid sometimes. im not sure if i could forgive him for something like that. this must be tough for you. you need to talk to him and ask him why he did it, does he like her? has he known her for a while? was at an impulsive action ... why . you need to find out and go from there. dont give him space and freeedom to think its that easy to get away with what he did. he needs to explain himself, his actions and his feelings for you and this ho

Amber.J 1 child; Texas 260 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting OneLoveMama:" men are so stupid sometimes. im not sure if i could forgive him for something like that. this must be ... [snip!] ... think its that easy to get away with what he did. he needs to explain himself, his actions and his feelings for you and this ho"


I am not ready to talk to him yet, this happened right before Christmas and I've been in shock ever since, I only just started talking about it and telling my friends today. I didn't want him to have the satisfaction of feeling like he won something.

Brookelynbaby Due April 7; Duluth, Georgia 64 posts
18th Jan '13

When you are ready, move on! Talk to a therapist, and know that what he did was not your fault! It is all his problems as to why he would do that !? Do not talk to him he is not worth it. The father of my b is living with me, he told me some girl hit him up on FB and said do you want to hook up? He would not tell me who she was, and deleted her comment , but the fact is she knew that he is having a baby and said well lets hook up anyways! Really what a scumbag! They come in all shapes and sizes !I still dont know how to feel about this girl? She is a "friend of his sisters living in the same area as me.