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sex Jessica Styles 1 child; Virginia 28 posts
18th Jan '13

I just had my baby & im healing of course & got to deal with 6 weeks of no sex:( but I feel guilty for my bf cuz he cant get any 4 a while. what are some things I can do to please him other than just a blow job? im curious also if u can have anel sex since pretty much your not torn up from delivering in that area. iv never done it b4 so im wondering if its even worth my time to try it for him?

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
18th Jan '13

I would not try anal when vag was still sore.

SniperWolfMandy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Carroll, IA, United States 322 posts
18th Jan '13

I'd think that anal sex might hurt just as much. There is also hand jobs, and you could let him f**k your breasts.

Younggrasshper Due August 30; 2 kids; Grand Rapids, Michigan 2093 posts
18th Jan '13

You just pushed a baby out....he should be more worried about YOU and your HEALING body than you worrying about him not getting any!

SniperWolfMandy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Carroll, IA, United States 322 posts
18th Jan '13

Also I hope he's not pressuring you for anal sex when you are still sore down there. Anal sex is normally very painful if you don't do it right. I would never want to attempt it right after giving birth.

Jessica Styles 1 child; Virginia 28 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Younggrasshper:" You just pushed a baby out....he should be more worried about YOU and your HEALING body than you worrying about him not getting any! "


hahaha of course im worried of me!!! just like i said i just feel guilty 4 him waiting 4 me to heal lol!

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Jessica Styles:" hahaha of course im worried of me!!! just like i said i just feel guilty 4 him waiting 4 me to heal lol! "


He has a hand. Don't feel guilty.

Younggrasshper Due August 30; 2 kids; Grand Rapids, Michigan 2093 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Jessica Styles:" hahaha of course im worried of me!!! just like i said i just feel guilty 4 him waiting 4 me to heal lol! "


I wouldn't feel guilty at all, and I've had 2 kids. My husband was willing to wait even longer than 6 weeks if that's what I needed.

VictoriaRose&SerenityRosa 1 child; Florida 183 posts
status 18th Jan '13

Anal hurts i tried i mean i could handle it after a few weeks if he went slow but i normally stuck to blow jobs lol.

Jessica Styles 1 child; Virginia 28 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting SniperWolfMandy:" I'd think that anal sex might hurt just as much. There is also hand jobs, and you could let him f**k your breasts."


lol my mother told me the breast part especially when they are filled with the milk & hard lol I just cant figure how to position with my breasts lol.

SniperWolfMandy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Carroll, IA, United States 322 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Jessica Styles:" lol my mother told me the breast part especially when they are filled with the milk & hard lol I just cant figure how to position with my breasts lol."

He sits on top of you and puts his thing in between and you use your hands to keep it there while he f**ks your b**bs. It's really simple.

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Jessica Styles:" hahaha of course im worried of me!!! just like i said i just feel guilty 4 him waiting 4 me to heal lol! "


He has a hand, 6 weeks isn't that long he'll be fine. Worry about yourself and healing.

Jessica Styles 1 child; Virginia 28 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting SniperWolfMandy:" Also I hope he's not pressuring you for anal sex when you are still sore down there. Anal sex is normally ... [snip!] ... there. Anal sex is normally very painful if you don't do it right. I would never want to attempt it right after giving birth."


he isnt pressuring me about it but he does keep asking and i didnt know if i could or not while healing so i nev knew what to say to his question if i could or couldnt.

SniperWolfMandy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Carroll, IA, United States 322 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Jessica Styles:" he isnt pressuring me about it but he does keep asking and i didnt know if i could or not while healing so i nev knew what to say to his question if i could or couldnt. "

Maybe it's my hormonal pregnant side saying this but... ya tell him that he's going to have to wait for that. Anal sex is NOT pleasurable at first. It hurts terribly without any other soreness down there. It just seems like he's being kind of inconsiderate asking for that. He would never want someone to f**k him in the ass probably because it's painful. Believe me no amount of lube will help.

Jessica Styles 1 child; Virginia 28 posts
18th Jan '13
Quoting Younggrasshper:" I wouldn't feel guilty at all, and I've had 2 kids. My husband was willing to wait even longer than 6 weeks if that's what I needed. "


lol thats what makes me feel guilty though he is being so sweet & waiting for me to heal and the other thing is how he has been here 4 me through pregnancy and in hospital and its not even his child. thats what else that makes me feel a lil bad 4 him lol