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Porn question. N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
20th Jan '13

Okay so I am not gonna lie, yes I'm a girl and I do occasionally watch porn. But what would you ladies think if your SO watched porn like all the time? I mean my SO seriously just came up to me and asked if I could help him with downloading pornos to his phone. And it's weird because he mainly watches dark skinned girl (black) porn, and I'm just like, okay does he like that more?? I dunno, it's just starting to piss me off. I know guys watch porn but this much?
Also we were at the store today, shopping for baby stuff and I looked over and noticed he was watching porn on his phone while walking around. Am I crazy for being upset or...? :x

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
20th Jan '13

I think that's a bit excessive, especially if he's walking around with you while looking for baby stuff and watching it. WTF? Who does that?

JustDucky 2 kids; Connecticut 1118 posts
20th Jan '13

That sounds like he has a major problem! Who the hell watches porn while walking around in a store shopping for baby stuff?!

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
20th Jan '13

The walking around a store and watching might bother me but a guy likes what he likes but i don't think it means he likes it more than you. you need to talk to him about it if is bothering you.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
20th Jan '13

That sounds like it's crossing the line into addiction.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
20th Jan '13

He's walking around, in public, watching porn? Dafuq? That's ridiculous.

Mom of 4 Little Boys! 4 kids; 2 angel babies; Hillsboro, Oregon 4755 posts
20th Jan '13

Wow...my DH has a slight addiction to porn but he would never walk around in public(especially not while shopping for baby stuff) looking at it on his phone.

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
20th Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Thisperyears:</b>" That sounds like it's crossing the line into addiction. "</blockquote>




I was kinda thinking the same.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
20th Jan '13

watching porn on his phone while walking around is a pretty big problem... and usually NOTHING bothers me... i could not imagine my husband ever doing that! ha!



he likes watching porn with girls who look like me.. blonde hair, blue eyes, small body, nice bums.. and he always picks out their features and will tell me i look better. i would be creeped out if he was into girls who looked completely opposite than me. but he likes lesbians... haha oh who the f**k knows. guys are weird.

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
20th Jan '13
Quoting Thisperyears:" That sounds like it's crossing the line into addiction. "


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r a b b i t ™ 1 child; Wildcat stuck in the Cards-nation, KY, United States 27518 posts
20th Jan '13

It doesn't bother me. Especially these days since I just don't feel like having sex. I know my husband watches it on occasion because it helps him get off quicker.



But in your SO's case that is odd. It sounds like he's getting hooked on it. It might be a good idea to confront him on it, there might be some deeper issue at hand?

xlilxmamax Wyoming 13 posts
20th Jan '13
Quoting ♡ kat&noah (35wks):" Okay so I am not gonna lie, yes I'm a girl and I do occasionally watch porn. But what would you ladies ... [snip!] ... and I looked over and noticed he was watching porn on his phone while walking around. Am I crazy for being upset or...? :x"


I would be crazy upset!!
Watching porn scan be awesome and a healthy part of a relationship - however - your SO sounds like he is going over board. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Why not suggest you guys only watch it together or something...at least not out and about in public!

May♥ 1 child; Texas 9183 posts
20th Jan '13

Wow! I have no problem with my SP watching porn or even the kind he watches. (I don't have a sex drive so I really don't mind.) But its always in the privacy of our bedroom or in the bathroom.
I don't know what I would do if he started watching it in public. :shock:

Little Richard's mommie! Due July 12 (boy); 1 child; Seneca, South Carolina 4430 posts
20th Jan '13
Quoting ♡ kat&noah (35wks):" Okay so I am not gonna lie, yes I'm a girl and I do occasionally watch porn. But what would you ladies ... [snip!] ... and I looked over and noticed he was watching porn on his phone while walking around. Am I crazy for being upset or...? :x"


Wow, I think that is a little ridiculous, I mean that kind of stuff is for at home ya know? And well I mean I asked SO/BD if he would ever do something like that he just nonchalantly said yeah I did it before. I think it'd probably piss me off as well. But like some of the other ladies have said guys like what they like, but there should be a line for him like he could watch it and all, but it sounds like an addiction. I thought the purpose was because it turns people on, why the heck would he want to walk around the store all hot and horny? My SO tries to hide it from me but I always know that he is watching it and what not, so I figured he'd have said no to the out in public thing but I guess not. Sorry OP if it bothers you, it's def. something you should talk to him about.

Little Richard's mommie! Due July 12 (boy); 1 child; Seneca, South Carolina 4430 posts
20th Jan '13
Quoting ♡ kat&noah (35wks):" Okay so I am not gonna lie, yes I'm a girl and I do occasionally watch porn. But what would you ladies ... [snip!] ... and I looked over and noticed he was watching porn on his phone while walking around. Am I crazy for being upset or...? :x"


Wow, I think that is a little ridiculous, I mean that kind of stuff is for at home ya know? And well I mean I asked SO/BD if he would ever do something like that he just nonchalantly said yeah I did it before. I think it'd probably piss me off as well. But like some of the other ladies have said guys like what they like, but there should be a line for him like he could watch it and all, but it sounds like an addiction. I thought the purpose was because it turns people on, why the heck would he want to walk around the store all hot and horny? My SO tries to hide it from me but I always know that he is watching it and what not, so I figured he'd have said no to the out in public thing but I guess not. Sorry OP if it bothers you, it's def. something you should talk to him about.