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user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Shirley Maria:" I do still smoke, it's not alot maybe 5 a day. I try my hardest.. and apparently everyone thinks it's an excuse :/ "

It's the way you're saying it.



You have to have better self control (no offense) 5 a day is still harmful :/ I was a smoker but I quit at 7 weeks. Everyone judging me made it easier. lol



You wouldn't want any regrets with this pregnancy. I think you can do it, if you try *harder.*

Shirley Maria Due May 12 (girl); Duluth, Minnesota 63 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Thisperyears:" I'm not hateful, it just pisses me off when someone is so selfish that they look for reasons to not ... [snip!] ... child and then get pissy and start stomping their feet when others who have experience with it try to tell them the truth. "

I have not once gotten angry this entire time. I know the truth, I'm not ignorant because the only person I listen to is my doctor, a PROFESSIONAL, I don't care about your experience because obviously, like you guys have been telling me, not everyone is the same.. so your experiences really wouldn't help me any. Would they?..

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Shirley Maria:" I have not once gotten angry this entire time. I know the truth, I'm not ignorant because the only person ... [snip!] ... like you guys have been telling me, not everyone is the same.. so your experiences really wouldn't help me any. Would they?.. "

Statistically, yes.

Shirley Maria Due May 12 (girl); Duluth, Minnesota 63 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" It's the way you're saying it. You have to have better self control (no offense) 5 a day is still harmful ... [snip!] ... judging me made it easier. lol You wouldn't want any regrets with this pregnancy. I think you can do it, if you try *harder.*"

I meant 5 at the most.. should have put that in there,.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Shirley Maria:" I have not once gotten angry this entire time. I know the truth, I'm not ignorant because the only person ... [snip!] ... like you guys have been telling me, not everyone is the same.. so your experiences really wouldn't help me any. Would they?.. "


Well considering you ASKED for experiences in your last thread, and when people told you the experiences they had or witnessed others having and when they weren't what you wanted to hear you had a little tantrum and made this whole new thread.

Shirley Maria Due May 12 (girl); Duluth, Minnesota 63 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Statistically, yes."

I will go and look up the statistics of my situation then.

Shirley Maria Due May 12 (girl); Duluth, Minnesota 63 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Thisperyears:" Well considering you ASKED for experiences in your last thread, and when people told you the experiences ... [snip!] ... witnessed others having and when they weren't what you wanted to hear you had a little tantrum and made this whole new thread. "

This is really tiring.. my last post. I wanted stories yes.. I didn't want to be attacked for what I commented afterwards.. I didn't want a whole lecture on what I'm doing wrong, how I can fix it, and how much of a bad mother I'm going to be. read this (I'm not yelling I just can't seem to get this through your thick skulls) STORIES: NOTHING MORE, NOTHING LESS.. I don't know why that was so hard to understand in the beginning. I get it people voice their opinions but jesus christ do you really need to keep voicing them? I read it the first time and if I didn't want your advice then I don't want it now, so call me a spoiled brat, or a horrible person, because you don't know me.. and it doesn't bother me.

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Shirley Maria:" This is really tiring.. my last post. I wanted stories yes.. I didn't want to be attacked for what I ... [snip!] ... I don't want it now, so call me a spoiled brat, or a horrible person, because you don't know me.. and it doesn't bother me. "


Well for someone that it doesn't bother you sure do type long ass responses. People are going to tell you what they want to tell you on here. You got stories and you could've easily ignored the other responses. Not that hard to do.

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Shirley Maria:" This is really tiring.. my last post. I wanted stories yes.. I didn't want to be attacked for what I ... [snip!] ... I don't want it now, so call me a spoiled brat, or a horrible person, because you don't know me.. and it doesn't bother me. "


Why did you ask for stories and express worry about your child if you don't care and it doesn't bother you? Oh right, because you are only interested in stories that validate and justify your selfish actions. Gotcha.

Shirley Maria Due May 12 (girl); Duluth, Minnesota 63 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting 3 little monsters:" Why did you ask for stories and express worry about your child if you don't care and it doesn't bother ... [snip!] ... bother you? Oh right, because you are only interested in stories that validate and justify your selfish actions. Gotcha. "

Lol, you're so dumb, I said it doesn't bother me what you guys call me and I don't care what you guys think.

3 little monsters 3 kids; Olathe, Colorado 50990 posts
Jan 21st '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shirley Maria:</b>" Lol, you're so dumb, I said it doesn't bother me what you guys call me and I don't care what you guys think. "</blockquote>



Liar, you do care because you are worried about how you are hurting your child. You just don't want to hear it. Deny it all you want but you wouldn't have posted the first thread if you weren't worried and you wouldn't have posted this one if you didn't care what anyone said. The end.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
Jan 21st '13

i'm sure people who don't know you, and aren't even mothers themselves judge you when they see you smoking while pregnant.



judging is everywhere OP.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
Jan 21st '13
Quoting Shirley Maria:" Lol, you're so dumb, I said it doesn't bother me what you guys call me and I don't care what you guys think. "


If you didn't care, you wouldn't keep responding, nor would you have asked for stories in the first place. You were trying to justify your actions, and when no one would help you do that, you started throwing a temper tantrum and automatically assumed it was because of your age. It was because you're being a smurfing moron and doing something that's been proven to be harmful to both yourself AND your baby.

Callie L. Due May 18 (girl); 49 kids; Ohio 334 posts
Jan 22nd '13
Quoting Shirley Maria:" Lol, you're so dumb, I said it doesn't bother me what you guys call me and I don't care what you guys think. "


Miss Shirley Maria, I thought I was rather sympathizing in my response. Ma'm, I understand you want to defend yourself against whatever things people may say about you, but if this thread is no longer beneficial to you, I would just un subscribe from it. The bickering back and forth is not useful to yourself or others, I've unsubscribed from many posts as they have just turned into dramatic arguements where there is no winner.

S U Z I E 3 kids; Venezuela 18567 posts
Jan 22nd '13
Quoting Shirley Maria:" Well then I guess I'm going to hell.. I'm such an awful person. you're right you don't know me and obviously since you don't care then you're only on here because you like to put down others."


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