Oh My Effing God...DO NOT QUOTE Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
21st Jan '13

My neighbor just propositioned me for sex.
He's married. I'm married.
He JUST had a baby. I have a son.
WTF. He calls DH's phone which I have tonight while he's at work, we're talking about business (Him having the baby recently, my son possibly having autism, etc). And all of a sudden, he starts saying "You're a lot like me, we're animals, we understand." and before I know what's going on, he starts talking about he's had these feelings for a while, but he doesn't want to hurt his wife so she can't find out and he didn't want to disrespect my husband but he had to tell me, and now he's ranting about how there's no betrayal if they don't find out.

Wtf. Holy shit. Wtf, what do I do? If I tell my husband, it's going to be f**king war. They live two houses down from us. My husband would seriously f**k his shit up and there'd be NOTHING I could do to stop him, he'd get arrested. My neighbor would lose his wife, lose his son but right now I'm like "WTF, if he's doing that does he even deserve them?"
...Please tell me what to do and for the love of GOD do not quote this til I have a chance to figure out what the f**k to do. I'm not going to have sex with the guy, that's...No, no f**king way. But WTF do I do?

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
21st Jan '13

is he hot? just kidding. id be worried that he would corner you alone or something

user banned 1 child; Portland, Maine 20613 posts
21st Jan '13

I would avoid being in a situation where I'm alone with him, and if he tries to again tell him that you're loyal to your husband and if he propositions you again you'll tell his wife and your husband. So not cool on his end and I feel bad for his wife.

user banned New York 15996 posts
21st Jan '13

Tell HIS wife and your husband. She doesnt deserve a POS like that!

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60898 posts
status 21st Jan '13

I'd tell my husband in a heartbeat.

HotMom21ERF Due December 17; 1 child; Kentucky 19589 posts
21st Jan '13

if your DH is like that, i wouldnt say anything. just forget about it

Bop ✿ 3 kids; Alabama 22508 posts
21st Jan '13

I would just tell him no and not to speak to you in anyway like that again. If your husband would go that crazy if you told him and get himself arrested, I wouldn't tell him unless this guy doesn't take no and keeps at it in the future.

MommaNoodle 2 kids; Pennsylvania 13115 posts
21st Jan '13

say no and ignore him. if he tries to do it again, tell your husband.

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18064 posts
21st Jan '13
loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9199 posts
21st Jan '13

ehh... I wouldn't tell either spouse unless he brings it up again.

Shitty situation for his wife though. :(

lolajessup Due July 25; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
21st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting sassy chef:</b>" I'd tell my husband in a heartbeat. "</blockquote>


BeginTheRomance Due July 21; 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
21st Jan '13

Eh, that's a tough one.
Personally I would tell my husband though.
God forbid your neighbor got mad at you and went to your husband saying YOU asked him for sex.
Yeah, I would tell your husband.

Chellie Due September 19; 2 kids; Vegas, Nv, United States 4196 posts
21st Jan '13

I would let it run off unless he brought it up again. However I also would not put myself in a position to be around him alone.

J+D=4 4 kids; Beverly Hills, California 14683 posts
21st Jan '13

I honestly would tell them... I had this happen to me. I told my hubby. my hubby confronted the guy. the guy said he was sorry. I didn't tell him wife at first, but I told another friend. the guy hit on my friend as well.. that's when we went to his wife. she said we were liars... blah blah blah.. but then a few months later she found out he had done this before and she left him. he is a POS who doesnt see his kids or pay child support. she and the kids are better off without him.

and like I said, i would tell my husband. what if he found out later and took the omission as a lie or betrayal?

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting HotMom21ERF:" if your DH is like that, i wouldnt say anything. just forget about it"

I know DH would flip shit, and there's a huge possibility that he'd attempt to beat my neighbor, and my neighbor is a gun owner, and it could go bad in a lot of ways.
But if I don't tell DH and he finds out, he's going to think I was hiding it from him for some other reason.