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aℓyssa Due October 21 (girl); 1 child; Manhattan, KS, United States 18872 posts
21st Jan '13

This is just sick, OP.



My daughter and husband sleep together all the time, and because of which I move to the couch because they both are bed hogs. That doesn't mean it's wrong they sleep together or that he's secretly molesting her. :?



You're causing more issues, imo.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30604 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" It sounds like you are planting seeds. Asking lots of questions. I would suggest she take her to the ... [snip!] ... it. None of the other stuff. I slept with my dad when I was little when he had visitation and he was never inappropriate."

I agree!! I slept with my dad all of the time & he never did anything inappropriate.

aℓyssa Due October 21 (girl); 1 child; Manhattan, KS, United States 18872 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" That was the most painfully grammatically incorrect and factually incorrect conversation that I have ... [snip!] ... it in the end of the conversation when YOU brought it up. You two seem just as slimy as he is, and I hope you both grow up."


They're worse, IMO.

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10877 posts
status 21st Jan '13
Quoting Cnc1990:" didnt say you had to read it all. basically he made her sleep on the couch while making his daughter ... [snip!] ... daughter said something would happen when sleeping in there but wouldnt say what she is afraid to go with him alone as well."


So she thinks her daughter is being molested, and instead of leaving immediately, she waits until they get KICKED OUT?



WHAT THE f**k?

CNA1990 New Jersey 382 posts
21st Jan '13

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IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30604 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting loser mom:" So she thinks her daughter is being molested, and instead of leaving immediately, she waits until they get KICKED OUT? WHAT THE f**k?"

Yea that is a bit weird, imo. Why all of a sudden does she say something about it, if she thought it was weird?

Loretta West [+1] Due March 26; TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 6066 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting Cnc1990:" not her sleepin in bed with him but that he would be insistant on her sleeping on the couch instead of ... [snip!] ... little girl said yes but would not say more and she is afraid of being around him especially when he would be alone with her."

Take her to a doctor, they're the only one that can really tell you what's going on IMO. The he said, she said won't get anyone anywhere.

IDGAF ❤ 1 child; San Diego, CA, United States 30604 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting Cnc1990:" not her sleepin in bed with him but that he would be insistant on her sleeping on the couch instead of ... [snip!] ... little girl said yes but would not say more and she is afraid of being around him especially when he would be alone with her."

Ok, kids at that age will just say yes to thing because they don't know what it actually means...you guys are planting seeds into her head that don't need to be there.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45941 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting Cnc1990:" not her sleepin in bed with him but that he would be insistant on her sleeping on the couch instead of ... [snip!] ... little girl said yes but would not say more and she is afraid of being around him especially when he would be alone with her."


Basically, the mother and grandmother have tainted everything by asking leading questions to this child.



I agree with the other poster, you and your friend seem like low lifes.....I pity that child growing up with immature morons like you two.

CNA1990 New Jersey 382 posts
21st Jan '13

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loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10877 posts
status 21st Jan '13
Quoting ❥ Meℓi:" Yea that is a bit weird, imo. Why all of a sudden does she say something about it, if she thought it was weird?"


I didn't read the entire OP, but if they're planting ideas in the little girls head, that's fucked up too!



This whole thread is just FUCKED! :evil:

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
21st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" not her sleepin in bed with him but that he would be insistant on her sleeping on the couch instead of ... [snip!] ... little girl said yes but would not say more and she is afraid of being around him especially when he would be alone with her."</blockquote>




Touch means touch to a 4 year old. You don't seem to know much about how 4 year olds think. Her mom and grandma need to stop planting seeds in this innocent little girls head. Kids need their father. They don't need their parents making them think they were molested and needing a lifetime of therapy and no father, when nothing happened.

CNA1990 New Jersey 382 posts
21st Jan '13

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Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45941 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" not her sleepin in bed with him but that he would ... [snip!] ... need their parents making them think they were molested and needing a lifetime of therapy and no father, when nothing happened."


Exactly!



Gah! What makes everyone who sees a couple of episodes of Dr. Phil think they are child psychologists?

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
21st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" i agree if she thought this i was curoius as to why she would wait as well. and i did tell her to talk ... [snip!] ... joint custody but its not automatically granted once the child is born just because he is her father if they were not married."</blockquote>




No. In every state, both parents have custody of a child if they were never married and no order has been made.



Do you not find it hilarious that this woman has no intentions of taking him to court, yet when you mention molestation she jumps at the bit?