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Suckysuckyy[3] Due June 12; 2 kids; Louisiana 796 posts
21st Jan '13

I read the whole conversation,even though it was hard.




Maybe she is being molested by her father,the only way to find out is to take her to a doctor.Anything can happen even fathers molest their own kids.Its disgusting,but shit happens.



The only thing that bothers me is,why the mother waited till now?Thats even more disgusting.But if 1)the child is scared to go with him and being alone.Thats a red flag.2)If she is saying she is being touch by him alone at night.Thats a red flag.Period.IMO I wouldn't let a incident like this go by,that's why so many kids are abuse/murder,because people say"Oh it's nothing".:roll:

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45785 posts
status 21st Jan '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" You are so inherently full of physical shit. Now when no one thinks you're captain save a ho, there ... [snip!] ... and proves himself innocent, and then takes this b***h to court for plotting to make him look like an unfit sex offender. "


I'm sort of madly in love with you right now....just saying.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting Cnc1990:" I'm not here for a grammar lesson. I was told the mom and grandma explained the question that way. The little girl's response was, "no, not like that." There you go, grammar nazis, better?"



You NEED a grammar lesson. It's a free gift. You should take it. You need all the help you can get.

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45785 posts
status 21st Jan '13
Quoting Suckysuckyy[3]:" I read the whole conversation,even though it was hard. Maybe she is being molested by her father,the ... [snip!] ... I wouldn't let a incident like this go by,that's why so many kids are abuse/murder,because people say"Oh it's nothing".:roll:"


Or, she had that idea implanted in her head by a couple of morons trying to start trouble.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I'm sort of madly in love with you right now....just saying."


8)

CNA1990 New Jersey 382 posts
21st Jan '13

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user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
21st Jan '13
Quoting Cnc1990:" I do not know why she hasn't taken her to the doctor either or why she would tell me, honestly. I figured ... [snip!] ... the court for joint or any form of custody and for visitation. I just went to court about this on the 14th with my sons father."


they have physical custody not everything else. if he is molesting her and that is a big if your friend is guilty of prostituting her daughter to her father. end of story

Suckysuckyy[3] Due June 12; 2 kids; Louisiana 796 posts
21st Jan '13

It can go either way.The child can be brain washed or not.The child needs to go someone professionally.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 16736 posts
status 21st Jan '13

This reminds me of that one case with the daycare. The parents all freaked out and had all the children thinking they were being molested when they really werent. It was the parent's paranoia that made all the children give false confessions.



Super sad.

CNA1990 New Jersey 382 posts
21st Jan '13

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user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
21st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" I do not know why she hasn't taken her to the doctor either or why she would tell me, honestly. I figured ... [snip!] ... the court for joint or any form of custody and for visitation. I just went to court about this on the 14th with my sons father."</blockquote>



Another thing I find disturbing, is where either the mother said she smelt it or you told her to smell her daughters discharge? What is going on? She needs to take her to a dr. If she has real concerns and you need to stop giving her ideas. Encourage her in taking her to the dr. Not making things a thousand times worse than what they are.

Loretta West [+1] Due March 25; TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 5738 posts
status 21st Jan '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" I'm sort of madly in love with you right now....just saying."


Right? She's like, my favorite person on BG lol

Mak&Row 18 kids; Portland, Oregon 763 posts
21st Jan '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" all im saying is what she tells me and im not saying im a psychologist nor do i act as so. she also just ... [snip!] ... my daughter is only 5 months old idk if a little girl has discharge or not i wouldnt be surprised if thats all it is though"</blockquote>



Are you going to post this shit on fb too???? If you were in my thread, I would delete you so fast...not an appropriate topic for a "social media" site where, by the way, what you post can be used in court. You sound like a fool...



Now that I got that off my chest...the little girl needs to be seen by clinical professionals that are trained in maneuvering such a delicate situation. The child's pedi would have such resources. So instead of posting all over God's creation, direct your friend-whoever to the right outlets. Sheesh...my blood is boiling now!

Loretta West [+1] Due March 25; TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 5738 posts
status 21st Jan '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Cnc1990:</b>" I do not know why she hasn't taken her to the ... [snip!] ... to stop giving her ideas. Encourage her in taking her to the dr. Not making things a thousand times worse than what they are."

Wait, what? Smell the discharge? That's fucked up..

CNA1990 New Jersey 382 posts
21st Jan '13

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